Originally Posted by Burning Down (Post 1363212)

I'm in my first relationship too and I don't see it changing either. I didn't date until I was like 20, I just wasn't interested, I didn't really have time because I was focusing on other things, and I don't think anyone really wanted to be with me anyways.

I didn't actually mean that you'd have to end up with all your soul mates or whatever. You can be with just one but I always believed several people that perfect person for you. Doesn't mean you have to get into a relationship with them. Does that make sense?

Originally Posted by Burning Down (Post 1363212)

I'm in my first relationship too and I don't see it changing either. I didn't date until I was like 20, I just wasn't interested, I didn't really have time because I was focusing on other things, and I don't think anyone really wanted to be with me anyways.

I didn't actually mean that you'd have to end up with all your soul mates or whatever. You can be with just one but I always believed several people that perfect person for you. Doesn't mean you have to get into a relationship with them. Does that make sense?

Originally Posted by Ki (Post 1363218)

I understood what you meant previously. I was just adding to the discussion. Everything I've wanted is in the person I'm with now.I couldn't ask for more

Originally Posted by Engine (Post 1363283)

I'm pretty sure the number of 1st-loves that blossom into lifelong happy relationships happens approximately never Emphasis on the word HAPPY. Maybe we've got 2 (er, 4) members here who will defy that circumstance but I doubt it. That's not how human life works. But good luck (seriously - I suppose it may actually be possible). In any case, definitely enjoy it while it lasts.

Originally Posted by Engine (Post 1363283)

I'm pretty sure the number of 1st-loves that blossom into lifelong happy relationships happens approximately never Emphasis on the word HAPPY. Maybe we've got 2 (er, 4) members here who will defy that circumstance but I doubt it. That's not how human life works. But good luck (seriously - I suppose it may actually be possible). In any case, definitely enjoy it while it lasts.

Originally Posted by Burning Down (Post 1363297)

That's so encouraging lmao

Originally Posted by Burning Down (Post 1363319)

My parents were each other's first serious relationship and they've been married for 30 years and together for 2 years before that.