djchameleon

so what? why live your life based off of stats of what may or may not happen?

just face the facts that she's more emotionally mature than you were at that age and let her live her life.

If she wants to get married then so be it. She could end up staying married to him for decades.

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ladyislingering

I want to bring peace to the world.

Just kidding, that's bullshit.

I just want to fill my life with things that make me moderately content, so when I die, I'm not all mad at myself.

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GuD

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I don't wanna change the world, I'm not looking for a New England I'm just lookin for another girl.

I want to own a building with a bistro/cafe on the bottom floor and a modest apartment complex upstairs. It'll be near a nice, not too crowded beach (thinkin San Diego or Santa Cruz but the food scene down there is not so great from what I hear) and I'll have a boat and surf boards. I'll work at the bistro during the afternoon/daytime with a small, friendly staff and get stoned or drunk or go surf or skate or play music or hang out with women and/or friends after work.

One day...

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Dulce

my fantasy dream is to someday party with the offspring, young the giant, the neighbourhood, tame impala, muse, metallica, and many other bands.

my future dream is to get married, have twins, fly my own jet, own an island, give back to the community and die happily.

Dr_Rez

...Why? Because she wants to get married?

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Mr. Charlie

Call no man unhappy until he is married - Socrates. Haha. I didn't enjoy being married, I loved her, but it felt different once the knot was tied, like less of a choice and more of an obligation.

Don't see the point in it myself. If you're in love, enjoy it and hope it lasts. Because it might not.

Dr_Rez

Thats what I am always telling my friends. Marriage is simply an institution set up by our government today. I have nothing against it but why rush into it, I mean if you are together, living togther, spending time together, hell even raising children together..marriage or not does not really make that big a difference.

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djchameleon

Marriage makes a big difference as far as taxes are related and all the other benefits you can get by claiming you are married on different forms. The main reason I want to get married is for those budget/monetary reasons. You can go ahead and shun the institution all you want but it does have benefits. Why do you think gay couples are fighting so hard for it?

Yes, she wants to get married and take those important steps in life earlier than you do. that doesn't mean that it's doomed. Just because it doesn't work out for some people doesn't mean that it won't work out for her.

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The Batlord

Wanting to get married when you're a teenager is more often than not a sign that you're a dumb kid, which is the opposite of being mature. If you're thinking about getting married at that young an age then maybe you should look at the stats just in case it gets through that maybe, just maybe, your little high school fantasy might not be the best idea.

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Dr_Rez

This. I think everyone in the first serious relationship they have thinks it will be the end all be all for them.

Everyone should experience serious heartbreak and/or someone cheating on them in life. Not because i want them to feel pain but to learn about themselves and realize the other sex is human just like you and we all make mistakes.

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