When someone you love likes music you hate

Burning Down · 05-13-2013, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by LoathsomePete

Going through my music collection I've come to realize I would have a harder time making a love mixtape for a girl than I would making one for a girl who miscarried.

Haha! It's okay, lovey-dovey mixtapes are cheesy as hell.

Urban Hat€monger ? · 05-13-2013, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Burning Down

Haha! It's okay, lovey-dovey mixtapes are cheesy as hell.

The mixtape in itself is but you feed enough bullshit with it they become instant panty removal tools.

Wolfi65 · 05-13-2013, 07:25 PM

If she's hot enough, she can play gangsta-rap, opera and Elton John all day.
I can always get earplugs.

Freebase Dali · 05-13-2013, 07:42 PM

Can't say I've ever got turned off by bad music. My d*ck has no ears.
Can't say I've ever dated a chick I didn't want to f*ck 24/7 either.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 05-13-2013, 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Urban Hat€monger ?

The mixtape in itself is but you feed enough bullshit with it they become instant panty removal tools.

I've dated guys with really shoddy taste. Can't say I've dated even one that even rated.

CrazyVegn · 05-14-2013, 12:15 PM

I'm an awful liar so it shows on my face, the dislike, no matter how hard I try to hide it. Rather than act I don't even have to say anything at all unless asked specifically what is wrong with it. Usually I end up hurting my loved ones feelings about music without trying to, but it is really on them and how they and most ppl fail to understand that music is not a personal possession. Once they grasp that others' opinions about it will never bother them again.

Ass Napkin Ed · 05-14-2013, 12:54 PM

Growing up my mom would play the Beatles almost everyday and I'm sure the over exposure of their music has something to do w/ my dislike for them.

On fb, my gf favorite album is listed as "any thing limp bizkit" that kills me a little.

Dayvan Cowboy · 05-14-2013, 05:45 PM

I had a boyfriend who only listened to dubstep and the black keys once and thought my music was too weird/abrasive. I personally think the black keys make a great alternative to nyquil, so I think a lot of our differences made it a short relationship.

I don't think music contributed much to it, but his attitude towards music certainly reflected his own attitudes. He's not adventurous whatsoever and he doesn't like to look into things deeper or do any intellectual analyses. It was really ****ty how whenever I had an idea he shot it down as too obscure or strange. I felt like he was literally making me dumber and dampening my self growth so I left him. I could never stay with someone who didn't contribute to a conversation like he did

because of that, I think someones taste in music can reflect their personality just a little.

duga · 05-14-2013, 06:00 PM

While I won't end a relationship based on music taste alone, it still has an influence. Replace the Jack Johnson CD mentioned above with NOW whateverthe****innumberwas. Every. Day. Now, the deal was I get to listen to an album and she gets to listen to an album. Fair? Not when NOW was the only album she ever wanted to put on. She kept saying I was close-minded and not everyone likes my kind of music. Seriously? While I didn't break up with her because of this, I was definitely relieved I didn't have to put up with that crap anymore.

My fiancee now isn't an audiophile like me, but she definitely knows her hip hop, which I really respect. She's also got an intense love for mid-90's R&B which I used to hate...but now I have a soft spot for it. She also respects my music knowledge and asks me questions about it. While she has her lines (I don't think Melt Banana would go over well) she generally lets me listen to whatever I want. I enjoy this.

Plankton · 05-15-2013, 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Trollheart

Meh, could be worse: it coulda be a John Jackson CD!

Now HE really sucks!

Never heard him. Do I even want to?

05-13-2013, 07:42 PM	#24 (permalink)
Freebase Dali Partying on the inside Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 5,584	Can't say I've ever got turned off by bad music. My dck has no ears. Can't say I've ever dated a chick I didn't want to fck 24/7 either. __________________

05-14-2013, 12:54 PM	#27 (permalink)
Ass Napkin Ed Music Addict Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: Nu Yuk Zity Posts: 57	Growing up my mom would play the Beatles almost everyday and I'm sure the over exposure of their music has something to do w/ my dislike for them. On fb, my gf favorite album is listed as "any thing limp bizkit" that kills me a little. __________________ I'll take the worst of Metallica, Kanye, Jay z, Journey & U2 over the "best" of Eminem, The Beatles, Nas and Elvis any day. It's simple math, genius at it's worst or trash at it's best. Last edited by Ass Napkin Ed; 05-19-2013 at 11:10 AM.

05-14-2013, 06:00 PM	#29 (permalink)
duga MB quadrant's JM Vincent Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Washington, DC Posts: 3,762	While I won't end a relationship based on music taste alone, it still has an influence. Replace the Jack Johnson CD mentioned above with NOW whateverthe****innumberwas. Every. Day. Now, the deal was I get to listen to an album and she gets to listen to an album. Fair? Not when NOW was the only album she ever wanted to put on. She kept saying I was close-minded and not everyone likes my kind of music. Seriously? While I didn't break up with her because of this, I was definitely relieved I didn't have to put up with that crap anymore. My fiancee now isn't an audiophile like me, but she definitely knows her hip hop, which I really respect. She's also got an intense love for mid-90's R&B which I used to hate...but now I have a soft spot for it. She also respects my music knowledge and asks me questions about it. While she has her lines (I don't think Melt Banana would go over well) she generally lets me listen to whatever I want. I enjoy this. __________________ Confusion will be my epitaph...

05-13-2013, 07:25 PM	#23 (permalink)
Wolfi65 Groupie Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: Albuquerque, NM Posts: 35	If she's hot enough, she can play gangsta-rap, opera and Elton John all day. I can always get earplugs.

05-14-2013, 12:15 PM	#26 (permalink)
CrazyVegn Left due to ban epidemic Join Date: Mar 2013 Posts: 498	I'm an awful liar so it shows on my face, the dislike, no matter how hard I try to hide it. Rather than act I don't even have to say anything at all unless asked specifically what is wrong with it. Usually I end up hurting my loved ones feelings about music without trying to, but it is really on them and how they and most ppl fail to understand that music is not a personal possession. Once they grasp that others' opinions about it will never bother them again.

05-14-2013, 05:45 PM	#28 (permalink)
Dayvan Cowboy Basscadet Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Antarctica Posts: 1,258	I had a boyfriend who only listened to dubstep and the black keys once and thought my music was too weird/abrasive. I personally think the black keys make a great alternative to nyquil, so I think a lot of our differences made it a short relationship. I don't think music contributed much to it, but his attitude towards music certainly reflected his own attitudes. He's not adventurous whatsoever and he doesn't like to look into things deeper or do any intellectual analyses. It was really ****ty how whenever I had an idea he shot it down as too obscure or strange. I felt like he was literally making me dumber and dampening my self growth so I left him. I could never stay with someone who didn't contribute to a conversation like he did because of that, I think someones taste in music can reflect their personality just a little.