P A N

i think you - ASS NAPKIN - need to consider what friends are.

one day you're gonna realize that the dude you used to call your friend was never your friend, and it's solely because you lack the depth of understanding and compassion necessary to maintain long-lasting relationships.

it's completely selfish of you to be reacting to this the way that you are.

Ass Napkin Ed

"....because you lack the depth of understanding and compassion necessary to maintain long-lasting relationships."

Apparently you know a lot about me, even though I've had the same best friend since middle school who lives almost 5 minutes away, I have several close friends I still see regularly from undergrad. Personally I have too many friends and enough close friends to last a life time & if any of them ever dropped a secret like this on me I would wave them goodbye I have no time for ppl who are so worried about what others think about them that they can't live as themselves. Yes that might come off as cold but that is the type of person I am & I would say that any one who was/is really my friend knows that.

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P A N

so this has nothing to do with the fact that he didn't tell you. it has to do with him deciding to not advertise his sexuality. you should inform all your friends of this. you know, so it's not a secret.

djchameleon

All his friends already know. He's the only one with the broken gaydar

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Ass Napkin Ed

Not all, some & my gaydar isn't broken this guy was just living too deep of a triple life, he deserves an Oscar.

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RoxyRollah

you make it sound like he was a CIA operative..for god sakes.. maybe he himself was confused, for a long time, maybe he went through the 5 stages of dying so to speak... you have no idea..hardly Oscar worthy, just something he had to work out for himself...and let me ask you this... if he told you sooner would it have actually made a difference?

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Ass Napkin Ed

actually it does & it says a lot that she knew you for so long & never told you

Reread that & understand that this is exactly my point & him pretending to be something he was not says a lot about the type of person he is & we clearly were never true friends, so why would I waste anymore time w/ this weirdo


Yes Oscar worthy, he went out of his way to pretend to be straight around me when he knew he was gay so yeah that deserves an Oscar. Here's an ex- a few months ago he stayed at my house for weeks while he was moving to town. Now my gf lives me but she travels a lot and every night this guy was here he would practically beg/drag me to bars/clubs to pick up chicks even though he knew he was gay. And several times we'd talk to a group of girls & he would try to talk them into convincing me that my r/ship was a mistake & I'm young and this wasn't the time to date. He would literally throw pussy in my direction, so what was the ****ing point of such an extreme act if he didn't even like girls. I'm mean the amount of women he banged in those weeks at my place now that I think about it was a desperate cry to appear straight, so yeah he deserves an Oscar, gg, emmy & what ever other awards they give to actors.

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I'll take the worst of Metallica, Kanye, Jay z, Journey & U2 over the "best" of Eminem, The Beatles, Nas and Elvis any day. It's simple math, genius at it's worst or trash at it's best.