How well do you know your friends?

Ass Napkin Ed · 05-09-2013, 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Freebase Dali

So your answer to someone coming out is to not throw them to the curb because they're gay, but because they had to work up the courage to do so?
What's the f*cking difference? You're judging them based on their own personal proclivities either way. Your brand of tolerance doesn't seem like actual tolerance, if you ask me.

And if it's because he didn't tell YOU first, then I think the problem here is your ego, not his choices.

Did you mean" So your answer to someone coming out is to throw them to the curb"

If that's what you meant, then yes. I can't deal w/ liars, I am an honest person & I don't waste my time trying to hide things from ppl or lie to them. So the fact that he did this says to me he can't be trusted or that he doesn't trust me, either way I don't need that headache in my life. B/c when someone shows you who they are believe it & he's showing me that he's fake I can't condone that.

Him being gay is not an issue, him being my friend & my wing man for years & hiding that from me is a huge issue, we did a lot of crazy **** together & my mind is burning just thinking about his real motives, I am truly disgusted.

Urban Hat€monger ? · 05-09-2013, 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Ass napkin ed

Him being gay is not an issue, him being my friend & my wing man for years & hiding that from me is a huge issue, we did a lot of crazy **** together.

Did it ever occur to you that this might be the reason why you might be one of the harder people to tell?

Ass Napkin Ed · 05-09-2013, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Urban Hat€monger ?

Did it ever occur to you that this might be the reason why you might be one of the harder people to tell?

That's actually why he should be telling me first, wtf was the point of ****ing all those girls if what he really wanted was the D

He should have been honest w/ himself & to me, his so called friend.

Freebase Dali · 05-09-2013, 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Ass napkin ed

Did you mean" So your answer to someone coming out is to throw them to the curb"

If that's what you meant, then yes. I can't deal w/ liars, I am an honest person & I don't waste my time trying to hide things from ppl or lie to them. So the fact that he did this says to me he can't be trusted or that he doesn't trust me, either way I don't need that headache in my life. B/c when someone shows you who they are believe it & he's showing me that he's fake I can't condone that.

Him being gay is not an issue, him being my friend & my wing man for years & hiding that from me is a huge issue, we did a lot of crazy **** together & my mind is burning just thinking about his real motives, I am truly disgusted.

No, I meant what I said. The "not" had a "but" related to it. For instance:
"You misunderstood my statement not because you didn't read it correctly, but because your reading comprehension is sub-par."

Anyway, obviously you're the one with the issues if something like your friend not coming out to you is so upsetting that you not only refuse to try and understand why that may be, but instead make up your own assumptions just so you can find a reason to feel betrayed.

You don't even know his intent, yet you have no issue making one up for him at the cost of a friendship. But apparently that friendship doesn't mean all that much to you if you won't even expend the effort to arrive at any "facts" other than the ones you drummed up all on your own.

Ass Napkin Ed · 05-09-2013, 06:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Freebase Dali

No, I meant what I said. The "not" had a "but" related to it. For instance:
"You misunderstood my statement not because you didn't read it correctly, but because your reading comprehension is sub-par."

Anyway, obviously you're the one with the issues if something like your friend not coming out to you is so upsetting that you not only refuse to try and understand why that may be, but instead make up your own assumptions just so you can find a reason to feel betrayed.

You don't even know his intent, yet you have no issue making one up for him at the cost of a friendship. But apparently that friendship doesn't mean all that much to you if you won't even expend the effort to arrive at any "facts" other than the ones you drummed up all on your own.

My comprehension is "sub-par" but yet your improper use of quotations is up to par. Smh the world wide web, where even the village idiots are brilliant, oxy. Never assume anything about me you'll always be wrong. I reached out to him after I found out that he was gay which apparently was not a secret to some of our college friends & instead he has literally dropped off the face of the earth, fb/t/I account shutdown all b/c he's afraid to be who he is, that is weak & I have no sympathy, empathy or pity for such weakness especially when he should now that if he told me it wouldn't have mattered. But this living a secret life I can't respect & he's been lying for years & I will never trust him as I did b4 so what would be the point of continuing a friendship based on fraud...

**Janszoon** · 05-09-2013, 06:14 PM

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Freebase Dali · 05-09-2013, 06:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Ass napkin ed

Never assume anything about me you'll always be wrong. I reached out to him after I found out that he was gay which apparently was not a secret to some of our college friends & instead he has literally dropped off the face of the earth, fb/t/I account shutdown all b/c he's afraid to be who he is, that is weak & I have no sympathy, empathy or pity for such weakness especially when he should now that if he told me it wouldn't have mattered. But this living a secret life I can't respect & he's been lying for years & I will never trust him as I did b4 so what would be the point of continuing a friendship based on fraud...

Until you tell us how often you masturbate and to what kind of porn, we will not respect you and you must leave this website. If you do not leave willingly, we will force you.
Better not lie.

Ass Napkin Ed · 05-09-2013, 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Freebase Dali

Until you tell us how often you masturbate and to what kind of porn, we will not respect you and you must leave this website. If you do not leave willingly, we will force you.
Better not lie.

Smh, you trolls are so obvious.

Freebase Dali · 05-09-2013, 07:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Ass napkin ed

Smh, you trolls are so obvious.

It's funny that you bring up trolling.

TheBig3 · 05-14-2013, 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Ass napkin ed

Him being gay is not an issue, him being my friend & my wing man for years & hiding that from me is a huge issue, we did a lot of crazy **** together & my mind is burning just thinking about his real motives, I am truly disgusted.

Why is that an issue? Why is it any of your business?

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