The Relationship Thread.

[Mindy]

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[rubber soul]

Yeah, I have to agree with SGR. It sounds like the girl is taking advantage of you. I'd distance myself from her as fast as I could.

[Psy-Fi]

SGR is spot-on. And I'll add that you don't know how many other guys she might be giving this same line to besides you. Sounds like she's fishing for suckers.

[Lisnaholic]

Originally Posted by SGR

Let's not mince words here now, come on. She's in "party mode" still and getting drunk, presumably, around midnight after her child goes to sleep? I'm sorry Alex, but I'm going to take "Not a responsible mother for 500".

Yes, I suppose I was naively trying to put the best spin on things for Mindfulness's sake - but you' re being more realistic, SGR. In fact in most cases, a good hard-working mom is likely going to fall asleep herself the minute her kid lets her.

[SGR]

Originally Posted by Lisnaholic

Yes, I suppose I was naively trying to put the best spin on things for Mindfulness's sake - but you' re being more realistic, SGR. In fact in most cases, a good hard-working mom is likely going to fall asleep herself the minute her kid lets her.

Absolutely. Same goes for a good hard-working dad. Kids are precious, but they're absolutely exhausting.

I've heard about enough relationship horror stories to know the genesis of one when I see it (or hear about it in this case).

I absolutely love women. But men have been socially conditioned to please women. That's what we do. And that's a good thing for society and civilization. But women know, consciously or not, about our proclivity for pleasing them. And women know how easily they can hypnotize us - and they can either use this power for good...or for evil. Sometimes all it takes is good looks to make men commit to some of the worst decisions of their lives. As Yoda would say: "Tread carefully, we must"

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by Mindfulness

I see what you mean about getting suckered into manipulation because that's how it felt that first night she asked for money. That's a good point about drinking when you have a kid, that should be my red flag. I appreciate yalls replies and I'll probably do what you say SGR, about wishing her the best but cut off texting back going further. I just don't think a relationship would work if she is drinking and I'm not drinking.

Outside of all the other red flags if you don't drink but still want to socialize you can always order virgin drinks or like club soda to have something in your hand that gives the appearance you are drinking without the need for consuming alcohol.

Edit: found this funny video

This you Mindy?

[WWWP]

If a girl asks you for money like that even once all you are to her is a mark. She’ll only keep asking and once you deny her she’ll ghost. 100% guaranteed.

[Mindy]

Originally Posted by djchameleon

Outside of all the other red flags if you don't drink but still want to socialize you can always order virgin drinks or like club soda to have something in your hand that gives the appearance you are drinking without the need for consuming alcohol.

Edit: found this funny video

This you Mindy?

funny video lol

Originally Posted by WWWP

If a girl asks you for money like that even once all you are to her is a mark. She’ll only keep asking and once you deny her she’ll ghost. 100% guaranteed.

yeah, it felt like that and pretty much is, Im not sending any more money if she asks. She texted back yesterday talking about starting a podcast lol

[The Batlord]

Originally Posted by Mindfulness

yeah, it felt like that and pretty much is, Im not sending any more money if she asks. She texted back yesterday talking about starting a podcast lol

Oh so she's a failed comedian too?

[Mindy]

Originally Posted by The Batlord

Oh so she's a failed comedian too?

I honestly don't know much about her situation, I must be deep down not interested or I'd try to have a conversation. I just reply back when she messages.