The Relationship Thread.

[Black Francis]

Sounds like it's a fairly new relationship is that accurate?

[FETCHER.]

Yeah we've only really been going out for around 7 or 8 months.

[butthead aka 216]

You look good and are dressed nice



Imo some of the best sex is when ur partner lives far away like my ex had to move for a job and when id visit it would be on like donkey kong

[Black Francis]

Originally Posted by FETCHER.

Yeah we've only really been going out for around 7 or 8 months.

Well then in that case i would say your lack of confidence is lack of trust ideally with your partner you're supposed to share intimate details without feeling shy or ashamed about it

ofc all this take time and every couple advances at their own pace

[FRED HALE SR.]

Originally Posted by FETCHER.

It's not like we never have sex, I think it's more about a lack of confidence rather than not actually wanting to have sex. The both of us are quite shy so it could be that. I often don't initiate sex because I basically worry that he doesn't want to have sex and will therefore tell me to stop. I have major insecurities about myself so I think it's more of a problem with me than anything else.

Another problem is that I literally have no idea how he feels about me which could contribute to why I hardly initiate sex, in the whole time we have been going out he has never told me that I'm 'dressed nice' 'look good' etc etc, I'm not looking to be told I'm a ****ing princess and gods gift to men, I just want to know he actually likes me.



I also have no idea how I would bring these subjects up. I feel like a lost cause.

Hes never told you that you look nice or are dressed nice. Better get rid of that zero and find a hero. Thats like relationship 101. He should be initiated sex also, its probably cause hes a skirt wearing Scotsmen.

[FETCHER.]

Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR.

Hes never told you that you look nice or are dressed nice. Better get rid of that zero and find a hero. Thats like relationship 101. He should be initiated sex also, its probably cause hes a skirt wearing Scotsmen.

A hero in Cali maybe? hahha.

He's a really really genuinely good guy which is hard to find around here, he is polite, well mannered, a true gentleman and makes me laugh a ton, we have no problems as such, except that. He does most of the initiating too.

[Tristesse]

"I really like you Dave but I've heard so many bad things about you"


The words every guy wants to hear from a girl he likes.

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by Tristesse

"I really like you Dave but I've heard so many bad things about you"


The words every guy wants to hear from a girl he likes.

That's when you follow up with a line like would you like to become another bad thing added to the list of things people wish were true about me.

Riff off of the bad boy rep that you already have especially if it isn't true.

Or tell her would you like to find out first hand?

[Tristesse]

Originally Posted by djchameleon

That's when you follow up with a line like would you like to become another bad thing added to the list of things people wish were true about me.

Riff off of the bad boy rep that you already have especially if it isn't true.

Or tell her would you like to find out first hand?

Normally I would do that sort of thing, but I actually really like her, I don't just want to get in her pants. Last girlfriend I had I pretty much completely lied about my personality and in the end I just got tired of having to keep going with the lying and making **** up.

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by Tristesse

Normally I would do that sort of thing, but I actually really like her, I don't just want to get in her pants. Last girlfriend I had I pretty much completely lied about my personality and in the end I just got tired of having to keep going with the lying and making **** up.

Well come out and tell her the truth then and let her know that those bad things aren't true.