The Relationship Thread.

[butthead aka 216]

Originally Posted by Burning Down

Your misogyny is showing.

at least im hidin my white priviledge, homophobia and racism well

but seriously ill break it down for everyone

heres what happens to millions of women -----


highschool ages - girls realize guys are chasing them. they get hit on. guys tryna bone them. they have sex and maybe are in a relationship. it becomes clear to them that guys lust after them sometimes regardless of their actions. pussy on the pedestal, high school guys all doin it, cmon you've seen the 40 yr old virgin where that guy says it


college - girls aware the leverage and power they have over men. plus this is when girls are at their hottest. let loose, be slutty, have fun. thoughts reinforced by getting into every party for free and hardly payin for drinks. its a trade off for sex but they realize they dont have to even have sex. its just the perk of bein attractive. guys willin to give free stuff and priority just for the increased chance of sex. like i said, reinforcing thoughts


after college - now 22-26. if single still realize the leverage they hold but it starts to fade as they age. others are getting married, having kids, etc etc. everyone more focused on starting a career, less partyin and stuff like that

late 20s - tables turn and guys have the leverage. guys have seen the error of their ways when they were younger, puttin the pussy on the pedestal like they used to isnt happenin. single men, with good careers now hold the power cause the brain is less sex crazed or maybe priorities change. lots of late 20s women who gained a few pounds, maybe had a kid but is single. now nobody is bendin over backwards for them like they used to

[Astronomer]

Originally Posted by Rezdaddy Longlegs

talk to your mother with that mouth

I thought it was funny...

especially since I referred to myself earlier on in the thread as "mature."

[Dr_Rez]

For the most part I agree with 216. Burning down dont forget he is talking about many females not ALL. Same could be said for guys who just spend their entire youth chasing after girls that mean nothing to them.

I think society puts the idea in many girls heads that all they are good for is looking good for men, when in reality they should be taught to go out and have ambition/create a career for themselves. Guys are guilty of the same thing for sure, they just dont have it aas easy in that regard since they dont hold to key to sex.

All those reality shows like Jershey shore and such are just further pushing the idea that a female is their to pick the best mate and have sex with them. It is not 100 AD anymore, that is not the case but pop culture sure doesnt tell you that.

[Burning Down]

Oh I know that haha. I defintely did not have guys chasing after me in high school and now that I'm taken they all want me. I don't get it.

[Astronomer]

Originally Posted by Rezdaddy Longlegs

I think society puts the idea in many girls heads that all they are good for is looking good for men

And don't you think that guys like 216 perpetuate this view? Yes, girls are often represented in ways that promotes the thought pattern that they are sex symbols and good for nothing but appearances/sexual desire. But a lot of the attitudes here (and elsewhere) merely promote this view, rather than supporting the fact that females have way more to offer than this, so how do you expect that to change?

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by Burning Down

Oh I know that haha. I defintely did not have guys chasing after me in high school and now that I'm taken they all want me. I don't get it.

that's something different entirely.

It happens to both sexes when they get into a relationship. You suddenly become more desirable to the opposite sex.

I think it has something to do with instinctively when single people see someone in a relationship that they want and tend to flirt with. They know that they have qualities that are good for a person that's in a relationship.

ummmm I don't know if that last part was easy to understand but does anyone get what I'm saying?

[Dr_Rez]

Originally Posted by Astronomer

And don't you think that guys like 216 perpetuate this view? Yes, girls are often represented in ways that promotes the thought pattern that they are sex symbols and good for nothing but appearances/sexual desire. But a lot of the attitudes here (and elsewhere) merely promote this view, rather than supporting the fact that females have way more to offer than this, so how do you expect that to change?

Of coarse guys perpetuate this view. Guys are just as guilty if not more guilty than the average female for this. I dont promote this view at all, but I am not going to lie and say I dont see it every day. For every girl with that way of thinking their is probably 2 guys her equal just as brainless and non self thinking.

[butthead aka 216]

Originally Posted by Astronomer

And don't you think that guys like 216 perpetuate this view? Yes, girls are often represented in ways that promotes the thought pattern that they are sex symbols and good for nothing but appearances/sexual desire. But a lot of the attitudes here (and elsewhere) merely promote this view, rather than supporting the fact that females have way more to offer than this, so how do you expect that to change?

if ppl dont wanna believe what i said is happenin then they need to open their eyes.. truth will set u free

disclaimer ive met lots of smart women with good personalities.

not that guys dont help in that mindset but its equally, probably moreso women's fault imo. tired of men takin the blame for stuff all the time.



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also the reason ppl are more desirable when in relationships is cause ppl look at their partner. and if they look at their partner and think 'hey thats a pretty attractive, well adjusted non douchebag' then the fact they are dating them gives reason to believe they must have really good qualities about them

[Astronomer]

Originally Posted by 216

if ppl dont wanna believe what i said is happenin then they need to open their eyes.. truth will set u free

disclaimer ive met lots of smart women with good personalities.

not that guys dont help in that mindset but its equally, probably moreso women's fault imo. tired of men takin the blame for stuff all the time.



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also the reason ppl are more desirable when in relationships is cause ppl look at their partner. and if they look at their partner and think 'hey thats a pretty attractive, well adjusted non douchebag' then the fact they are dating them gives reason to believe they must have really good qualities about them

216, I think you would really get along with a guy I know called boo boo.

[butthead aka 216]

dunno him but cool name at least

im not tryna make it sound like woe is me or pity party for the men of the world at all. but i realize its hard to make the points i made while not lookin that way. which is why im declarin that now to make it clear. thats just how things work for the most part