The Relationship Thread.

[Dr_Rez]

Originally Posted by FETCHER.

Um no, not necessarily. My boyfriend is quite the gentleman but it doesn't mean I walk over him because he's nice to me, I'm equally nice and 'courteous' shall we say. Also just because a guy's a gentleman doesn't mean he's gonna take ****. There's a massive difference.

DJ is 100% correct. You just wouldnt know since you have never dated women.

[Burning Down]

Originally Posted by djchameleon

He has to be more than just a gentleman or else he will get walked over all the time.

Just like how women say "chivalry is dead" well guess who killed it?

There's a fair amount of manipulative women out there who will walk all over the nice guys. I think a guy looking for a relationship with someone should be a gentleman, but also know when to be a jerk. Sort of meld it into one. I don't know if that makes any sense lol

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by Burning Down

There's a fair amount of manipulative women out there who will walk all over the nice guys. I think a guy looking for a relationship with someone should be a gentleman, but also know when to be a jerk. Sort of meld it into one. I don't know if that makes any sense lol

Not so much a jerk but play a little hard to get and don't play all of his cards in the beginning and be an emotional slut like rez mentioned earlier. It makes so much sense.

When he mentioned that I was like "he tells no lies"

[Burning Down]

Originally Posted by djchameleon

Not so much a jerk but play a little hard to get and don't play all of his cards in the beginning and be an emotional slut like rez mentioned earlier. It makes so much sense.

When he mentioned that I was like "he tells no lies"

Yeah that's what I was trying to say haha

[Astronomer]

Originally Posted by Dr. Rez

What about a beautifully cocked, phat walleted, meaty brained, sack destroyer who just so happens to be rude and let the door slam in your face.

Ew!

[FETCHER.]

Originally Posted by Dr. Rez

DJ is 100% correct. You just wouldnt know since you have never dated women.

Oh I completely agree that there are some horrible, twisted and manipulative bitches out there but then shouldn't you guys avoid chicks like that? Just like I avoid big muscley steroid dudes because I know they're mostly all asswipes who love steroids and looking like people should fear them.

[The Batlord]

Originally Posted by FETCHER.

Oh I completely agree that there are some horrible, twisted and manipulative bitches out there but then shouldn't you guys avoid chicks like that? Just like I avoid big muscley steroid dudes because I know they're mostly all asswipes who love steroids and looking like people should fear them.

When they have big breasts then we sort of turn into retards for whom character judgement is an alien concept.

[Dr_Rez]

Originally Posted by FETCHER.

Oh I completely agree that there are some horrible, twisted and manipulative bitches out there but then shouldn't you guys avoid chicks like that? Just like I avoid big muscley steroid dudes because I know they're mostly all asswipes who love steroids and looking like people should fear them.

That isnt just the few manipulative bitches out there...it is the majority of females (not all obviously). In every instance in my life when I have not replied back, barely called, given almost 0 attention, had other options...is when nearly every girl becomes more attached and wants more. This is the case with nearly all my friends and certainly does not happen often the other way around with guys. I am not saying guys are all level headed blameless humans, just that in this arena females act almost primitive based off instinct instead of logic.

[butthead aka 216]

Originally Posted by Dr. Rez

That isnt just the few manipulative bitches out there...it is the majority of females (not all obviously). In every instance in my life when I have not replied back, barely called, given almost 0 attention, had other options...is when nearly every girl becomes more attached and wants more. This is the case with nearly all my friends and certainly does not happen often the other way around with guys. I am not saying guys are all level headed blameless humans, just that in this arena females act almost primitive based off instinct instead of logic.

very true

i think its cause females are always used to guys being after them and gettin so much attention. its probably reassuring for them subconsciously. womens whole lives guys are competing for their attention and not the other way around. so i think the reason it works so well to not give a girl attention or kinda ignore her is because since she is so used to guys wantin her attention she has the assumption that you are still tryin to get that attention but from somebody ELSE. so you found someone better than her. but thats an ego shot which she aint cool with. thats why she wants you even more


nah mean

[Cuthbert]

Originally Posted by 216

very true

i think its cause females are always used to guys being after them and gettin so much attention. its probably reassuring for them subconsciously. womens whole lives guys are competing for their attention and not the other way around. so i think the reason it works so well to not give a girl attention or kinda ignore her is because since she is so used to guys wantin her attention she has the assumption that you are still tryin to get that attention but from somebody ELSE. so you found someone better than her. but thats an ego shot which she aint cool with. thats why she wants you even more

nah mean

You're more appealing once they think you've got options. Plus they want the man to be in control, if they've got control of the relationship they'll lose respect for you and just fuck you off. Women don't want a wet tart who just nods along saying 'yes dear' even when she's clearly taking the piss. They don't want barbaric bastards either but the other extreme is a complete turn off.

& Blanking them will only work if they actually like you in the first place, if they do and you come across too strong or too 'nice' they will lose interest. Women can smell desperation from a mile off.

The manipulative types are usually childish as fuck and easy enough to avoid though.