The Relationship Thread.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 06-28-2013, 03:58 PM

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Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR.

What do you think is going on? If you're saying you want to be exclusively dating then just ask him if hes down with that scenario. If your just curious how he feels about you then ask. I never understood the lack of communication in relationships. Its very easy to just ask a question. If your question scares him off, then he wasn't worth your time. If he wants to be single then you know. If he wants to date you exclusively then you still know where he stands. That will be 30 dollars Kay.

You'll never make it in the whoring business fred goddamn

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 06-28-2013, 10:58 PM

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Originally Posted by FETCHER.

So I'm still seeing this dude, we've never spoke about what's actually going on between us and he's coming to stay tonight so I probably won't have a better opportunity to ask him than tonight. I don't really know how to go about it other than saying "what's happening here?" Haha, I'm actually hopeless. Any ladies had to do the same in the past that could help me?

I got me and my boyfriend drunk on Whiskey and I brought it up then and he was like yeah of course! So you could try that? I think some guys are just as shy as us ladies.

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 07-01-2013, 02:00 AM

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Originally Posted by FETCHER.

So I'm still seeing this dude, we've never spoke about what's actually going on between us and he's coming to stay tonight so I probably won't have a better opportunity to ask him than tonight. I don't really know how to go about it other than saying "what's happening here?" Haha, I'm actually hopeless. Any ladies had to do the same in the past that could help me?

In my past it's usually one of those post-sex pillow talk things that gets asked.

misspoptart · 07-01-2013, 04:58 AM

FETCHER (Kaycee?). I think it's more likely he wants to be friends with benefits. I guess whatever happened has already happened, but in my experience asking the "what are we" question can very quickly kill what is happening. Hope that is/was not the case for you.

FETCHER. · 07-01-2013, 07:50 AM

We've not had full on sex yet as neither of us ever carry a condom and I'm definitely not willing to have sex without one. I had one of those post-sex pillow talks yesterday haha, I told him I wasn't sleeping with him until I knew he wasn't going to be an arsehole and he seemed quite hurt that it would cross my mind. He's a mutual friend of mine, my brother and sister so my brother has already gave the embarrassing big brother speech.

FETCHER. · 07-01-2013, 07:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

I got me and my boyfriend drunk on Whiskey and I brought it up then and he was like yeah of course! So you could try that? I think some guys are just as shy as us ladies.

I think I might try that, we both live with our parents so don't really have the opportunity to drink at home so we normally go to the pub with friends!

misspoptart · 07-01-2013, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by FETCHER.

We've not had full on sex yet as neither of us ever carry a condom and I'm definitely not willing to have sex without one. I had one of those post-sex pillow talks yesterday haha, I told him I wasn't sleeping with him until I knew he wasn't going to be an arsehole and he seemed quite hurt that it would cross my mind. He's a mutual friend of mine, my brother and sister so my brother has already gave the embarrassing big brother speech.

Hmmm, I see. How crude of me to assume you guys were already going at it. Welllllp in that case he must be hanging around for something. Better to just get it out in the open. First, tell him what you want out of the friendship. Then maybe he'll open up about what he's thinking. That's all you can do, really. And I echo what other posters have said about the fact that if he gets freaked out/doesn't really answer he probably had the wrong intentions anyway.

FETCHER. · 07-01-2013, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by misspoptart

Hmmm, I see. How crude of me to assume you guys were already going at it. Welllllp in that case he must be hanging around for something. Better to just get it out in the open. First, tell him what you want out of the friendship. Then maybe he'll open up about what he's thinking. That's all you can do, really. And I echo what other posters have said about the fact that if he gets freaked out/doesn't really answer he probably had the wrong intentions anyway.

It's nearly happened a few times because my parents are on holiday haha. I told him the last time we sat together I really liked him and he said he liked me too, so I guess that's good.

And yeah I will do, it's not just us wondering what's going because we go out all the time together, for instance he invited me to his friends birthday night out in Glasgow. He's a really nice guy I've known for years though and he makes me laugh hundreds. Can't really ask for much more, can I?

Dulce · 07-26-2013, 05:28 AM

I'm single.

FETCHER. · 07-26-2013, 05:37 AM

So don't post in the relationship thread brah.

07-01-2013, 04:58 AM	#304 (permalink)
misspoptart gimme gimme Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: istanbul Posts: 897	FETCHER (Kaycee?). I think it's more likely he wants to be friends with benefits. I guess whatever happened has already happened, but in my experience asking the "what are we" question can very quickly kill what is happening. Hope that is/was not the case for you.

07-26-2013, 05:28 AM	#309 (permalink)
Dulce WILDFIRE Join Date: Jul 2013 Posts: 232	I'm single.