The Relationship Thread.

Sequoioideae · 05-26-2013, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Burning Down

I always think that office romances/flings are a bad idea, just because they are super risky.

My mom used to work for a company that didn't even allow employees to date each other.

I guess, besides, I found out she wasn't a natural redhead. Disappointment of the fucking century.

**Goofle** · 05-26-2013, 08:08 PM

Slightly dramatic there.

djchameleon · 05-26-2013, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Always

I guess, besides, I found out she wasn't a natural redhead. Disappointment of the fucking century.

lol I agree with that sentiment. No lies are being told.

**Goofle** · 05-26-2013, 08:15 PM

I thought good kid, m.A.A.d city had that one tied up tbh.

djchameleon · 05-26-2013, 08:17 PM

obviously you haven't been confronted with a false redhead before.

Blarobbarg · 05-26-2013, 08:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Hermione

Male or female?

Female.

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Originally Posted by Goofle11

Not awkward at all. Unless you start rubbing her leg with your crotch.

Lol. Yeah, that won't happen.

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Originally Posted by Burning Down

I've been there. It's hard to make it "just go away", often the feeling is just... there.

I've actually been in this place before. Last time it took awhile, but the feelings did eventually go away. Mostly because I was just sick of bull****, but still.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 05-26-2013, 08:38 PM

Been there booboo, does she give any indicators that she'd like to be more than friendly? Do you value your friendship more than a relationship/sex with her?

Not making assumptions at all, but I think more info is needed. I hate having that dilemma and I'd hate to see you make the same mistakes I did!

Blarobbarg · 05-26-2013, 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Hermione

Been there booboo, does she give any indicators that she'd like to be more than friendly? Do you value your friendship more than a relationship/sex with her?

Not making assumptions at all, but I think more info is needed. I hate having that dilemma and I'd hate to see you make the same mistakes I did!

Meh, honestly, I just don't care enough about whatever feelings I may have right now to do anything about it, at least for the moment. This is only a crush, as far as I'm aware, and I know that I get over crushes fairly quickly if they mean nothing.

If I'm still feeling anything in a few months? Then I'll start seriously thinking about it, but for now, I'll just chill and let happen whatever happens.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 05-27-2013, 01:06 PM

Editing because I missed Blaro's post

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Originally Posted by Blarobbarg

Meh, honestly, I just don't care enough about whatever feelings I may have right now to do anything about it, at least for the moment. This is only a crush, as far as I'm aware, and I know that I get over crushes fairly quickly if they mean nothing.

If I'm still feeling anything in a few months? Then I'll start seriously thinking about it, but for now, I'll just chill and let happen whatever happens.

Good for you! I wish you well, it's great that you value her friendship so much that you don't wanna **** it up with a relationship. A lot of people are really bad at that (meee lololol)

Anyway
Does anyone believe in the concept of soulmates? I mean it goes back to the Ancients, the whole myth about Zeus being jealous of humans that he split us into two halves and we spend our lives searching for that other half, someone who perfectly fits us

I used to think it was just bull**** but I'm not so sure now. I mean, there's so many combinations for identity now that I feel like it could be ANYONE but no one seems to fit me very well. I think I might have found my "other half" but that would, to me, imply I'm not a whole person without them but I am whole on my own.

What does everyone else think?

Blarobbarg · 05-27-2013, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Hermione

Editing because I missed Blaro's post

Good for you! I wish you well, it's great that you value her friendship so much that you don't wanna **** it up with a relationship. A lot of people are really bad at that (meee lololol)

Thanks!

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Anyway
Does anyone believe in the concept of soulmates? I mean it goes back to the Ancients, the whole myth about Zeus being jealous of humans that he split us into two halves and we spend our lives searching for that other half, someone who perfectly fits us

I used to think it was just bull**** but I'm not so sure now. I mean, there's so many combinations for identity now that I feel like it could be ANYONE but no one seems to fit me very well. I think I might have found my "other half" but that would, to me, imply I'm not a whole person without them but I am whole on my own.

What does everyone else think?

I think it's possible that certain personalities will mesh with others in a very complimentary way, and I know from my parents that sometimes a person wouldn't be "complete" without their "other half," but I ultimately believe that if you love someone enough, and they love you enough back, they are in essence your "soul mate." It's not like you couldn't possibly be with anyone else, it's just that they work out well with you, and the two complete each other.

Hopefully that makes sense.

05-26-2013, 08:38 PM	#277 (permalink)
~~Sansa Stark~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: The Eyrie, Vale of Arryn, Westeros Posts: 3,234	Been there booboo, does she give any indicators that she'd like to be more than friendly? Do you value your friendship more than a relationship/sex with her? Not making assumptions at all, but I think more info is needed. I hate having that dilemma and I'd hate to see you make the same mistakes I did!