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Old 03-25-2013, 10:35 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Obviously since I'm not a lesbian my opinion is sort of irrelevant, but I've never understood why "girly" lesbians always end up with "butch" lesbians. Wouldn't someone attracted to women not be attracted to someone who looks like a man? Yeah, gender, yadda yadda, social construct, yadda yadda. But still, I'm not attracted to butch girls and as far as I know most men aren't either, so why are so many lesbians attracted to them?
The question is, why the hell does it matter? For all I know it's an "identity" thing.
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Old 03-25-2013, 10:41 AM   #2 (permalink)
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The question is, why the hell does it matter? For all I know it's an "identity" thing.
It doesn't, but I've just always been curious. Too many episodes of Jerry Springer I guess.
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Old 03-28-2013, 02:44 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Easily, if even for experimental reasons. Than if I really wanted to get the operation and hormone medication, I probably would. At times, I do feel uncomfortable with my gender, but than I put on a dress and makeup and that feeling goes away.
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Easily, if even for experimental reasons. Than if I really wanted to get the operation and hormone medication, I probably would. At times, I do feel uncomfortable with my gender, but than I put on a dress and makeup and that feeling goes away.
Maybe you just need to shave your legs.
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Old 03-29-2013, 01:53 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Maybe you just need to shave your legs.
It's not that simple. I don't feel comfortable being noticed as a male, I feel more comfortable when I get complimented for my female attributes (figure, face, etc.)
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It's not that simple. I don't feel comfortable being noticed as a male, I feel more comfortable when I get complimented for my female attributes (figure, face, etc.)
I used to know a guy many years ago where I worked who felt exactly the same as you. He never felt comfortable in his male persona and only felt truly relaxed when dressed as a female, which I know he did in his free time. He said for a couple of years that this system worked for him, but in the end he became more sure that he was a transexual and when I last spoke to him he was considering gender reassignment. I left that job not long after and never knew what became of him.
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Old 03-30-2013, 12:21 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I used to know a guy many years ago where I worked who felt exactly the same as you. He never felt comfortable in his male persona and only felt truly relaxed when dressed as a female, which I know he did in his free time. He said for a couple of years that this system worked for him, but in the end he became more sure that he was a transexual and when I last spoke to him he was considering gender reassignment. I left that job not long after and never knew what became of him.
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it's good to get an inside perspective like that
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Easily, if even for experimental reasons. Than if I really wanted to get the operation and hormone medication, I probably would. At times, I do feel uncomfortable with my gender, but than I put on a dress and makeup and that feeling goes away.
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Did you not thoroughly read the original post? Cause what I'm reading is that you'd bang someone transgender "experimentally" then transition yourself? wat
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