So she said "The truth is I was born a boy."

NEWGUY562 · 03-04-2013, 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Trollheart

I have no idea. But I think you made your decision, given all the information at the time that you had, so it's pointless complaining that you were misled. The only way that could have happened is if she didn't tell you until you were actually in the act and went WHOA WTF IS THAT??? But she tried to tell you. She probably didn't expect it would go as far as it did, but once it did she did what I would consider the decent thing and "warned" you. As I said, nobody forced you to do what you did. You could have said that changes everything sorry I have to go, or made some excuse --- hell, you could have thrown her out/walked out and I'd have more respect for you.

What you did was: you had sex, KNOWING what she was. NOW you feel bad, wish you hadn't, but refuse to take the responsibility, saying she led you on, she lied to you. What utter tosh. You knew the score but wanted your end away and now you can't face what you've done (in which there is, by the way, nothing wrong) and want to find excuses and someone to blame. AND you haven't the balls (or hadn't: I see you say you just texted her, interested to see how that was taken) to text her and explain what were your pretty reprehensible actions afterwards.

You know, thinking about it now, I probably, almost certainly would not go to bed with a "chick with a d1ck" as they say. I'm not gay and to me sleeping with a TS/TG/TV whatever would probably still fall into that category. But I'd have the decency to say no thanks and leave it at that. You didn't do that. You wanted to have your cake and eat it (could there be a worse or more double-entendre-prone metaphor?)

You didn't read any of my last posts did you?!!!

Anyways I texted her saying "Long time no talk huh? :p" she replied to my text saying "I thought you forgot about me </3"...I can't text her everything I want to say so I'mma ask if she wants to talk.

Trollheart · 03-04-2013, 04:28 PM

I did read them. I didn't see anything that changed the way I look at you. At best, there was a "guilty shrug", but nothing that would indicate you were sorry for the way you treated her.

Still, you did text her so maybe there's some hope for you after all...

All depends now on what you say to her when you meet her. Have you had any thoughts about that?

FRED HALE SR. · 03-04-2013, 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Trollheart

I did read them. I didn't see anything that changed the way I look at you. At best, there was a "guilty shrug", but nothing that would indicate you were sorry for the way you treated her.

Still, you did text her so maybe there's some hope for you after all...

All depends now on what you say to her when you meet her. Have you had any thoughts about that?

I bet he goes downtown on that badboy. Rope her off good dude.

NEWGUY562 · 03-04-2013, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Trollheart

I did read them. I didn't see anything that changed the way I look at you. At best, there was a "guilty shrug", but nothing that would indicate you were sorry for the way you treated her.

Still, you did text her so maybe there's some hope for you after all...

All depends now on what you say to her when you meet her. Have you had any thoughts about that?

I asked if she wanted to talk and she said she's with her family right now and would call me later ..I said at 5 would be a good time and she said ok.

I guess now we just have to talk and I wanna tell her how I feel about everything that happened and well apologize for ignoring/neglecting her.
I want to be friends with her but I don't want here thinking it's just because she's transgender...I've told many girls in the past that I just wanted to be friends. (It's usually after we have sex.) but I actually wouldn't mind being her friend and someone she can talk to about anything. (if she's feeling down or whatever) My girlfriend probably won't mind but I'm not telling her about what happened between us because it would lead to problems and she's still healing from the drama we had the first time around.

NEWGUY562 · 03-04-2013, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR.

I bet he goes downtown on that badboy. Rope her off good dude.

PoorOldPo · 03-04-2013, 04:42 PM