Originally Posted by Ki

Anyone else feel like the OP wants us to agree with him, and if we don't, we're somehow wrong? He questions the people who would still date them, but defends his fathers teachings when he's questioned.

Originally Posted by NEWGUY562

You pulled the ole switcheroo on me..
Crazy how things flip...
Anyways I appreciate what you've done..

Originally Posted by Trollheart

Yeah, personally I think you need to take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror, man. You're so broken up about how YOU feel after the act, but you haven't considered, so far as I can see from any of your posts, how the T-girl feels. She obviously has a thing for you and yet you refuse to answer her texts or calls? She probably would understand if you told her you couldn't really handle it and you shouldn't see each other, but you won't do that. I have to be honest, your attitude disgusts me. It's all "poor me, what have I done?" without a single thought for the girl.

Why don't you just grow a pair and ring or text her, explaining how you feel, instead of avoiding her and putting her through all this? And let's not be stupid here: you can't claim she didn't tell you beforehand because from your own post you say she tried to talk to you about it, but you decided **** it and dived in, as you say. YOU made the decision to go ahead, so there's nobody else to blame and it sickens me that you're now whining about it like some stupid kid.

No-one forced you to screw her, oh and by the way how DARE you compare yourself to a rape victim? There's absolutely no comparison! Did someone hold a knife at your throat, or punch you in the face?

Sorry to the rest of you guys if this comes across as too angry but Christ I'm fuming at this attitude!!!

Man up, dude, as they say over in the US: you did the deed, now face the aftermath. Call the girl, explain your feelings or lack of them, or if not stop whining about it here. Life's not full of easy choices; sometimes you have to do things you may not want to.

Okay okay I'm going... angry mutter...

Originally Posted by Ki

You avoided my question. And switcheroo? I've seen you preach what your dad taught you even though you say you are against it, but when someone else brings it up, you don't want to talk about it. As if you're defending how he raised you. I just want to make sure i'm understanding what's going on so I can continue to debate in a fair manner instead of feeling like my points are useless to begin with.

Originally Posted by NEWGUY562

What was the question you asked me?
I just think it's funny how you flipped the script on me and tried to get other posters to team up on me too. lol

Originally Posted by Ki

I didn't flip the script. We agreed at one point, that doesn't mean I find your other postings suspicious. I'm just debating as one debater does with another. I'd just like to know if you agree with what your dad taught you or not? Because it'd make this debate a lot easier.

Originally Posted by NEWGUY562

My dad believes that you shouldn't date the same gender or anyone outside of your race. No I don't agree with either of those. It's a shame because he's a great father it's just that his views on many things in life I just don't agree with.

Originally Posted by Ki

Fair enough. I have no doubts that he's a great father, I just wanted to be sure I asked so I don't make any rash assumptions, even though my previous post was like that. Either way, in this case, I just feel like if you don't want to talk to the girl, you should at least talk to your parents, it'd give you some closure.

Originally Posted by NEWGUY562

(I can forgive her for lying to me and misleading me the whole time.)

Originally Posted by Ki

This is the only thing I have an issue with. She technically wasn't lying to you. She was acting the way she wanted to act in the gender that she was / wanted to be. In your mind, yes, it does seem like she is lying to you, but in her eyes, she was acting normal and was attracted to the opposite gender. I also don't think it's misleading, I think that's an assumption on your part.