Should i? (African, quote)

2tonelol · 02-21-2004, 07:03 PM

I have met a young lady and we discussed going on a date,she has hinted strongly that we may have some sort of sexual contact,i am not sure that i am comfortable with this but i really like her and want to make it work,what should i do?

Shan · 02-21-2004, 07:07 PM

Take it one step at a time, perhaps walk her home from church as a first date, get to know her a bit better, find out if you're really compatible by ascertaining the position of her trines and star crosses from her astrological chart. Then just give her one, for gods sake are you a man or a mouse?

2tonelol · 02-21-2004, 07:29 PM

Well that would be good advice except that we belong to 2 different churches,i am C of E and she is from a strict African Muslim familly,and i am not accepted in her church.
i can assure you i am niether man or mouse,i am a TIGER!! GGGGGRRRRRR!!!!!

Shan · 02-21-2004, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by 2tonelol

Well that would be good advice except that we belong to 2 different churches,i am C of E and she is from a strict African Muslim familly,and i am not accepted in her church.

I think you're f***** then geezer. Unless you want to convert, but is it worth it just for a......f-f-friendship?

2tonelol · 02-21-2004, 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Shan

I think you're f***** then geezer. Unless you want to convert, but is it worth it just for a......f-f-friendship?

Well Mwaebae(that's her name) has suggested that,but i dont know that i can be that dedicated to her religeon,besides i shouldn't have to.

Anyway the problem is the i am worried that sexual contact might ruin the freindship,and i dont like the pressure she is putting on me to ...put out!

Eltiraaz · 02-21-2004, 08:38 PM

Tell her that, if she respects you, she'll respect your desicion and wait till your ready, or get tired of waiting and ditch you for another....:S

I dont expect you to take relationship advice from a 14 year old, especially this 14 year old

Xarius · 02-21-2004, 10:47 PM

i agree with elt.

Rockafella Skank · 02-22-2004, 12:45 AM

Elt is definitely right.

jibber · 02-22-2004, 01:21 AM

ya, i've been down that road before, trust me, wait till your ready

Shan · 02-22-2004, 10:53 AM

Oh come on, life's too short, I say - wait till you meet her ok, then decide. If you think in the flesh she's got a face like a slapped arse then your decision will be made for you, if however, she is the most gorgeous thing you ever saw then you may want to shorten your idea of what 'wait' is.

Hey, it's a good job we have an open relationship isn't it?

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2tonelol looking long'n'hard Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Hampton London Posts: 161	Well that would be good advice except that we belong to 2 different churches,i am C of E and she is from a strict African Muslim familly,and i am not accepted in her church. i can assure you i am niether man or mouse,i am a TIGER!! GGGGGRRRRRR!!!!! __________________ Jesus is coming!!!! Look Busy!!!! http://liquidator.mysite.freeserve.com/

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Eltiraaz Music Addict Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Toronto Posts: 346	Tell her that, if she respects you, she'll respect your desicion and wait till your ready, or get tired of waiting and ditch you for another....:S I dont expect you to take relationship advice from a 14 year old, especially this 14 year old __________________ Conformity n.(kœn-fôr'mí-tè)- 1. the enemy of friendship.

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02-21-2004, 07:07 PM	#2 (permalink)
Shan Axe Murderer Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: uk Posts: 62	Take it one step at a time, perhaps walk her home from church as a first date, get to know her a bit better, find out if you're really compatible by ascertaining the position of her trines and star crosses from her astrological chart. Then just give her one, for gods sake are you a man or a mouse?

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Rockafella Skank Management Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Connecticut Posts: 609	Elt is definitely right.

02-22-2004, 10:53 AM	#10 (permalink)
Shan Axe Murderer Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: uk Posts: 62	Oh come on, life's too short, I say - wait till you meet her ok, then decide. If you think in the flesh she's got a face like a slapped arse then your decision will be made for you, if however, she is the most gorgeous thing you ever saw then you may want to shorten your idea of what 'wait' is. Hey, it's a good job we have an open relationship isn't it?