Homie's Cheating Girlfriend?

The Batlord · 05-26-2012, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Hermione

Except for fuck his girlfriend. You're both assholes, and if you were a good friend you'd tell your friend his girlfriend was trying to fuck you and YOU WOULDN'T FUCK HER.

Alright, let's forget about this douchebag for just a moment. Is it really a good idea to tell a friend that their girl hit on you? I mean, I've never been in the situation, but I always hear, "Don't mess around in grown folks' business", or something along the lines of it just making the situation worse. I'm more curious than actually disagreeing with you.

NEWGUY562 · 05-26-2012, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Hermione

Except for fuck his girlfriend. You're both assholes, and if you were a good friend you'd tell your friend his girlfriend was trying to fuck you and YOU WOULDN'T FUCK HER.

Is that really that hard? You ARE a bad person because YOU are choosing your own desire over your friendship. That is textbook asshole behaviour.

And since I know this is coming, I DO understand because I've been on both sides of it, and I was a cunt for doing either. Just like you'll be. I atleast had the decency to feel ashamed.

well it's like he'd find out or anything so it's not hurting him..
he told me about her that he thought she was cheating on him and stuff and he cheats on her so wtf they shouldnt even be together..
what's wrong with choosing my own desire?
see if me & her did i'm sure i'd feel a little bad about it afterwards but once it's over i wouldnt talk to her anymore therefore i wouldn't feel guilty anymore either.

anticipation · 05-26-2012, 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord

Alright, let's forget about this douchebag for just a moment. Is it really a good idea to tell a friend that their girl hit on you? I mean, I've never been in the situation, but I always hear, "Don't mess around in grown folks' business", or something along the lines of it just making the situation worse. I'm more curious than actually disagreeing with you.

Is this a joke? If a girl is dating one of your close, true friends and she's being flirty and tries to get intimate with you then she's not a grown woman. She's obviously immature and not serious about your friend but you don't care enough to tell him? Come on dude, this is rule no. 1: look out for your friends no matter what. Don't **** her and tell your friend what happened, and let him decide what he wants to do.

The Batlord · 05-26-2012, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by anticipation

Is this a joke? If a girl is dating one of your close, true friends and she's being flirty and tries to get intimate with you then she's not a grown woman. She's obviously immature and not serious about your friend but you don't care enough to tell him? Come on dude, this is rule no. 1: look out for your friends no matter what. Don't **** her and tell your friend what happened, and let him decide what he wants to do.

Well, like I said, never been in the situation myself, so I'm not pretending to know one way or the other, but while it would obviously be the first instinct, sometimes a friend might decide to stick with his girl rather than you. It's easy to say, "Well then he must not be a very good friend", but life is life and things are never that simple.

NEWGUY562 · 05-26-2012, 11:41 AM

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Originally Posted by anticipation

Is this a joke? If a girl is dating one of your close, true friends and she's being flirty and tries to get intimate with you then she's not a grown woman. She's obviously immature and not serious about your friend but you don't care enough to tell him? Come on dude, this is rule no. 1: look out for your friends no matter what. Don't **** her and tell your friend what happened, and let him decide what he wants to do.

I think she does feel a little bad about it too because she told me a few times not to tell him about me and her ...(maybe she's just telling me that to save her ass lol)..it's funny to me because if half of you were in this position you'd be leaning towards hooking up with her i know it!
if he doesn't know he doesn't get hurt and it's a win for me..for her and for him..he already thinks in the back of his mind that she cheats on him and i guess he's right. i get some type of sick pleasure from this idk why :/

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 05-26-2012, 11:41 AM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord

Alright, let's forget about this douchebag for just a moment. Is it really a good idea to tell a friend that their girl hit on you? I mean, I've never been in the situation, but I always hear, "Don't mess around in grown folks' business", or something along the lines of it just making the situation worse. I'm more curious than actually disagreeing with you.

I guess it depends on how you are with your friends, tbh. While you may not tell your friend, I would because I would feel like a liar every time I talked to said friend, because they don't know the truth about their significant other. I tend to get into everyone's business really, especially if it's someone I care about, I will always try to take care of them in the best way I know, because I don't like to see them hurt, and if you lie in this situation and don't tell your friend, it's a double betrayal. I always maintain a total honesty policy with all of my friends. I always tell them if they're fucking up or wearing something horrid or I think their significant other is a douche.

NEWGUY562 · 05-26-2012, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord

Well, like I said, never been in the situation myself, so I'm not pretending to know one way or the other, but while it would obviously be the first instinct, sometimes a friend might decide to stick with his girl rather than you. It's easy to say, "Well then he must not be a very good friend", but life is life and things are never that simple.

I agree.

The Batlord · 05-26-2012, 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by NEWGUY562

I agree.

Oh no. YOU are still a douche.

NEWGUY562 · 05-26-2012, 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Hermione

I guess it depends on how you are with your friends, tbh. While you may not tell your friend, I would because I would feel like a liar every time I talked to said friend, because they don't know the truth about their significant other. I always maintain a total honesty policy with all of my friends. I always tell them if they're fucking up or wearing something horrid or I think their significant other is a douche.

Well now i've been distancing myself from him til after me & her hook up (if we do) then after that happens i can be cool with him again because i'd put it aside and that'll be done. it'll just be awkward to be around the both of them...she evens tells me stuff like she gets jealous because my ex works with me which is weird as **** because i know he told her stories about me and my ex.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 05-26-2012, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by NEWGUY562

Well now i've been distancing myself from him til after me & her hook up (if we do) then after that happens i can be cool with him again because i'd put it aside and that'll be done. it'll just be awkward to be around the both of them...she evens tells me stuff like she gets jealous because my ex works with me which is weird as **** because i know he told her stories about me and my ex.

I don't care, you both disgust me. You are not a wild reckless libido, have some self control.