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04-07-2012, 10:57 PM | #41 (permalink) |
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I guess, yeah, there's a difference between big and fat.
Also, it's how you dress yourself/how you view yourself. If you're a size 20 US and you dress in skimpy clothing with your stomach hanging out, that ain't hot. If you know how to dress, and wear something nice for your body, I think it's totally hot. Also, if you're confident and you want to wear whatever you want to wear, it doesn't matter about everyone else's opinion. Of course, this thread is about opinion, so I guess this aspect of the argument wouldn't be valid. Regarding the more negative comments, I don't think it's right to insult anyone. If someone doesn't want to BE with you because of how you look, fine. But that's still no reason to call anyone a "disgusting fatty". That's just nasty and unnecessary. |
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04-08-2012, 10:48 PM | #45 (permalink) |
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I equate obesity to stupidity, so no. Nothing is more unattractive than an unhealthy person, because it betrays a sense of apathy and unwillingness to maintain themselves. Unless you have a serious medical condition, in which case I understand.
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04-08-2012, 10:51 PM | #47 (permalink) | |
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Curvy, big, etc. also count. Fine, obese, like unable to sit in a booth at a restaurant? Unable to ride rides at a theme park? Fine. What about people who aren't obese? What if some people like curves? I mean, there are cultures that definitely appreciate curves way more than stick thinness. So what about people who are just curvier or big? And if you see someone "obese" on the street, you can't just tell they have a serious condition. So I don't really know if that even counts. Does that mean if you met someone with a serious condition, that you would be with them because they're not fat due to laziness? |
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04-08-2012, 11:01 PM | #48 (permalink) | |
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not really, how you spend your time doesn't really define you as a human being so much as your social relationships and the way you treat your body. i don't place value on actions, more so on the way those actions affect your health and your happiness. i'm lazy as shit dude i smoke weed hahah.
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04-08-2012, 11:10 PM | #49 (permalink) | |
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Your notion that obese people are less smart just makes me slightly uncomfortable. From an emotional standpoint I actually agree with you, I look at a lot of obese people with contempt. They have been successfully taken advantage of by food corporations, convinced sunny d is an adequate substitute for orange juice or whatever. But when i think about it more objectively, it seems a lot of it really is genetics. I don't eat healthier or value my body more so than many overweight people, I was just fortunate to inherit a fast metabolism. |
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04-08-2012, 11:18 PM | #50 (permalink) | |
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But some of it's genetics. Bone structure for example, is entirely genetics and plays a factor in how much 'meat' you carry on your bones. And yes metabolisms do vary. Also, it makes sense that obesity is generally looked at as unattractive. We associate attractiveness with how healthy an individual is from a survival standpoint. Obese people don't typically live as long, pretty basic stuff. I would be interested to see anticipation's correlation with intelligence and weight though. |
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