I did once wear a dress in a school play. Didn't do anything for me.

I wear my gf's skinny jeans sometimes. (Yay, I'm a size Zero). But that's about it. I think of gender as a useless way to define people so I would have no problems doing some gender bending if I wanted to.

As I get older I'm coming around more and more to the idea that there really aren't any boundaries of gender or sexuality. I think these things are like a colour spectrum, without a beginning, middle, or end, and it's natural to be any hue on this spectrum.

Gender and sexuality are very fluid things. Needlessly confusing. Shouldn't be this hard to figure myself out but here I am. Some days I feel as though I have no gender.

I think it takes guts to do something like that. Many people have a hard time being themselves without it requiring them to make such a drastic change in their life.


You've already shed the gender constraints you were born with, why hold yourself to any at all?

i'm not transgendered

but as i've stated before, during the height of "New Romanticism" i went out in heavy make-up as a teen - lip gloss, eyeliner, foundation

i have crossdressed in my mum's clothese on occasion as a teen

and in Shakespearean plays in college, i mostly opted to play female parts - Lady Macbeth and Miranda in "The Tempest" cos they were more challenging and interesting

Because being female is the sense I was born with. But I do consider myself a tomboy (like most girls raised as boys).

that makes sense. It's not something i can relate too, so i can't truly understand.

This is causing some controversy up here:

Transgender group slams pageant for turfing contestant | Canada | News | Toronto Sun

I have no issue with people doing crossdressing or changing gender. That is a person's choice. I love everyone regardless what you do. My parents hate crossdressing. Just months ago, when I saw people crossdressing, I said wow some people look nice crossdressing and my dad got so piss and said what the **** is wrong with me because he gets in rage when he hears about people crossdressing and I told him that is part of USA life, get over it. My dad got so mad. My mom would just go and whine and say these people are mentally dumb. My mom was so sadden to see one man change to a woman saying that man is so souless for changing gender. I mean seriously I don't mind it but my parents get in rage if they hear about crossdressing or transgenders especially crossdressing.