For Her.

right-track · 12-15-2011, 07:56 PM

My deepest sympathies.
Stay strong for your children, Lee. They need you now more than ever.
Don't ever feel guilty for moaning about stupid crap either because you're right, it really doesn't matter.
If you ever need to talk you've got my email. Don't hesitate to contact me.

My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. God bless you all.

R.I.P. Elaine

**Goofle** · 12-15-2011, 08:01 PM

I echo the thoughts of each member. Deeply sorry for your loss.

Thom Yorke · 12-15-2011, 08:17 PM

I can't imagine how you must be feeling. My deepest condolences.

s_k · 12-15-2011, 08:25 PM

I'm so sorry for you man. You must be devastated.
I wish you and your kids every bit of strength there is to get through the time that lies ahead.

Perhaps needless to say, but if you ever feel like talking,
I'm sure all of us are willing to listen.

And you're right. Life is short.
Your words are very true, and beautiful.

Stephen · 12-15-2011, 08:40 PM

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.

**Janszoon** · 12-15-2011, 09:16 PM

Lee, I am shocked and so incredibly sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you and yours. I know I'm just some guy on the internet but I do truly consider you a friend and if there is anything I can do help you, or just help take your mind off things, please let me know.

Phantom Limb · 12-15-2011, 09:23 PM

I am extremely sorry for your loss. Stay strong. You will be in all of our hearts.

TheBig3 · 12-15-2011, 10:00 PM

Whatever the relationship, death is never easy. I am sorry that Elaine is no longer with you, Lee.

Whenever I've lost a loved one, I've made a concious decision to carry them with me as much as I can. To think about things they taught me, or just things that always inspired me to recognize that I have it pretty good. This is pretty lame, but sometimes I make my passwords to things phrases they'd use, or things we had in common so I'm forced to remember them every day.

I hope she stays in your heart forever, Lee.

Paedantic Basterd · 12-15-2011, 10:18 PM

I never really know what to say in the face of loss, being someone who doesn't handle sympathy well, so I'll share with you the words that helped me, and hope that they bring comfort.

It will get easier with time.

DoctorSoft · 12-15-2011, 10:38 PM

Stay strong Lee. this is a terrible loss, and I'm genuinely sorry for you, and utterly shocked.

12-15-2011, 08:25 PM	#14 (permalink)
s_k Music Addict Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 2,206	I'm so sorry for you man. You must be devastated. I wish you and your kids every bit of strength there is to get through the time that lies ahead. Perhaps needless to say, but if you ever feel like talking, I'm sure all of us are willing to listen. And you're right. Life is short. Your words are very true, and beautiful. __________________ Click here to see my collection

12-15-2011, 08:40 PM	#15 (permalink)
Stephen I sleep in your hat Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Melbourne, Vic. Aus. Posts: 1,847	I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My sincerest condolences to you and your family. Last edited by Stephen; 12-15-2011 at 09:45 PM.

12-15-2011, 09:16 PM	#16 (permalink)
Janszoon Mate, Spawn & Die Join Date: May 2007 Location: The Rapping Community Posts: 24,593	Lee, I am shocked and so incredibly sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you and yours. I know I'm just some guy on the internet but I do truly consider you a friend and if there is anything I can do help you, or just help take your mind off things, please let me know. __________________ A Night in the Life of the Invisible Man Time & Place 25 Albums You Should Hear Before the Moon Crashes into the Earth and We All Die last.fm

12-15-2011, 10:00 PM	#18 (permalink)
TheBig3 killedmyraindog Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Boston, Massachusetts Posts: 11,172	Whatever the relationship, death is never easy. I am sorry that Elaine is no longer with you, Lee. Whenever I've lost a loved one, I've made a concious decision to carry them with me as much as I can. To think about things they taught me, or just things that always inspired me to recognize that I have it pretty good. This is pretty lame, but sometimes I make my passwords to things phrases they'd use, or things we had in common so I'm forced to remember them every day. I hope she stays in your heart forever, Lee. __________________ I've moved to a new address

12-15-2011, 07:56 PM	#11 (permalink)
right-track Atchin' Akai Join Date: May 2005 Location: Unamerica Posts: 8,723	My deepest sympathies. Stay strong for your children, Lee. They need you now more than ever. Don't ever feel guilty for moaning about stupid crap either because you're right, it really doesn't matter. If you ever need to talk you've got my email. Don't hesitate to contact me. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. God bless you all. R.I.P. Elaine

12-15-2011, 08:17 PM	#13 (permalink)
Thom Yorke Music Addict Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 1,848	I can't imagine how you must be feeling. My deepest condolences.

12-15-2011, 10:18 PM	#19 (permalink)
Paedantic Basterd Music Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 5,184	I never really know what to say in the face of loss, being someone who doesn't handle sympathy well, so I'll share with you the words that helped me, and hope that they bring comfort. It will get easier with time.

12-15-2011, 10:38 PM	#20 (permalink)
DoctorSoft Rocket Appliances Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 1,335	Stay strong Lee. this is a terrible loss, and I'm genuinely sorry for you, and utterly shocked.