LuckyLovexoxoxxx

how was it

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Howard the Duck

shopping was fine

things are cheap

wedding photoshoot was strenous

people's attitude is bad

traffic is hell

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LuckyLovexoxoxxx

owch not good

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I can be your best friend and make everything wonderful or I can be your worst enemy and make your life a living hell.

Howard the Duck

not stopping me from going back

though next time I won't be in the city area much

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Malaise is THE dominant human predilection.

blastingas10

This sounds a bit elementary but here goes. How can you tell when a girl likes you? What are some signs? I think I know but I want to hear some opinions.

Freebase Dali

Don't worry about her signs at first. It's perfectly acceptable for you to display those signs first instead of waiting for her to. In fact, she might be waiting for exactly that.
Be interested in what she's saying and get flirty when it seems appropriate. If you give her signals that you're into her, and she reciprocates, then she's into you. If she backs off, then she's not.

What are those signals that she's into you? Well, easy answer... anything that doesn't end up with her walking away. Unless you're trying to preserve some friendship or something, you really don't have anything to lose by showing her that you're into her and getting turned down. Just do it nice and easy and as naturally as possible.
If you're laying down the moves and she's still there eating it up, then guess what. You have your answer. Take it further.

Just don't wait around for her to show some signs of interest, because she just might be waiting for the same thing, and eventually will assume you're not if you're just treating her like some girl you're chatting with. Of course, not all girls are the same, but you can't really go wrong with the "try" strategy. That's usually the strategy that gets results.

Key

when she has sex with you more than once.

midnight rain

Freebase pretty much covered it all. The closest thing you'll get to a 'sign' without approaching is eye contact, and that is no guarantee. They could just have a staring problem.

Approach them and strike up a conversation. If they seem warm and receptive, take it from there. If it seems like they're trying to get out of the conversation as fast as possible, you have your answer. Keep it simple, at the end of the convo ask if they want to get some coffee. It's a pretty safe bet without being too forthcoming.

I guess some signs during conversation would be laughing at your jokes, playing with her hair, body contact, whether she's facing towards or away from you, etc.

Just don't be a shoulder to cry on.

blastingas10

The pursuit is something I'm not worried about. I just always be myself and let things go as they will.

Let me add a little more detail so you can have a better feel of my situation. I just started a new job a few weeks ago. From day one I started catching her staring at me. I'd turn around and she'd be looking right at me, maybe she was just looking in my direction, but it's happened multiple times. I'm pretty positive that she's looking me, about as positive as I could be without her actually saying "I'm looking at you".

We haven't exchanged more than a few words, that's the thing. All the signs I've gotten have just been looks. I never have a chance to talk to her unless I catch her in the break room, and that never happens.

I almost wanna describe it as tension between us, or some kind of attraction. I get a vibe from her, she seems kind of nervous when we pass each other, I get nervous too. I work at lowes so everyone is constantly walking all around the store and we walk past each other sometimes but there's not really time to talk. Our departments are pretty close so we in each others presence quite a bit, and like I said, there's just this vibe or tension between us, I think she feels it too. It's kind of hard to explain but I've felt something like that before, y'all know what I'm saying?

I feel sure there's some kind of attraction going on between us, and it's going both ways. I can tell when a girl doesn't like me, or doesn't like me in that way. A lot of girls just will make you feel like you dont exist, and that's a sure sign they don't like you. I know she knows I exist. Like I said, I've turned around multiple times and seen her staring at me.

midnight rain

Yes.

She is waiting for you to approach her and will get bored if you put it off for too long. Make the time to go talk to her. Next time you pass her ask her if she wants to grab coffee after she gets off.


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