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I think I could be bisexual. Like the idea of being with either a guy or girl doesn't really seem weird to me. The first time I really thought it could be possible was when I thought that the guy Ricky from my so called life had a really cool fashion sense and thought he was so cool. Originally I thought he was just dressing all 90s like but then I found out later in the show that he was gay. He was my favorite character too. I find myself rooting for the gay protagonist in shows quite often too. Its definitely possible that I could be bisexual but in all I really don't know at this time I have never had much of an experience to really push it.

do the ole boner test man.

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Originally Posted by DoctorSoft (Post 1152004)

do the ole boner test man.

What is that

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Originally Posted by Odyshape (Post 1152039)

What is that

watch some hunks nude, wrestling in oil preferably

if it rises, welcome to bi-land

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Originally Posted by Jack Pat (Post 1151709)

I came out to both my mother and my brother about four or five years ago after school. My mom took my newly-announced sexuality fairly well while my brother was rather ambivalent about it (we haven't brought it up since). It wasn't dramatic in any sense of the word, and it would be a bit silly to bore the lot of you with any details... Unfortunately, I'm not openly gay outside of the family... so I have been unable to date (which I plan on changing in the fall... when I attend college). I honestly don't give a damn about the homophobia that runs rampant where I live. I'm tired of lying to people...

That's it.

Awesome, I'm glad you shared it with us, I had no idea whatsoever.

I just read a few stories for the first time. I'm an emotional wreck :|.

From one private and prudish person to another, Jack, I'm really glad to see you comfortable enough with us to be honest. I know I'm still not most of the time, haha.

I feel like everytime I tell people I have asexual tendencies they think I mean I'm bi-sexual or that I'm not interested in having relationships. I've kind of experienced in a small way what's it's like to tell people you're gay just because people don't understand what the hell I mean :laughing:

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Originally Posted by Conan (Post 1152463)

I know someone who is pansexual, and she told me once that people assume that she can't have a monogamous relationship with someone because of her sexuality, which isn't true at all.

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Originally Posted by Odyshape (Post 1151958)

I don't think all of that's a qualifier for your possible sexual orientation. Maybe it's because I'm straight, and I know I am, but it seems to me that if you're sexually attracted to both men and women, that's pretty much all you need to look at. I look up to both men and women regardless of their sexual orientation, think they're cool, and root for them. And I know when a guy is attractive or not. It doesn't mean I'm sexually attracted to him or want to jump his bones.

I think Duce made it as simple as it is... if you want to bone a guy, you'll know.