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Old 08-13-2018, 10:01 AM   #1 (permalink)
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That's the kind of pressure many of us will never know, and be glad not to know. Could so easily have gone terribly badly. Respect.
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Old 08-13-2018, 10:03 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Thanks you guys...

@Micshazam, it was a bet I was willing to make only when I knew that I would be ok even if they didn't react well. It turned out well, but I was sort of adamant, to the rest of my family, that I was not going to live a lie for the rest of my life, I had too much pride for that and they needed to understand and accept my decision (they were initially VERY much against telling our parents).

Anyways, I'm glad it all turned out ok, it's just a great burned off my shoulders and one less thing to stress about. It's a little weird I guess that something like that could cause so much stress, but we are where we are...:/
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Old 08-13-2018, 10:07 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Really happy for you, adi.
Eastern-europeans are indeed often ridiculous about homosexuality and it's good to hear that things went relatively well for you. Can't even imagine how my dad would react if I were gay. He's totally brainwashed by this whole conservative putin-loving orthodox **** that's currently so popular in the former USSR.
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Old 08-13-2018, 11:13 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I'm glad that you found some happiness adidasss!

Sidenote: Is Mirko "CroCop" Filipovic still the most famous person to come out of Croatia? LOL
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Depends what you're into, if you're into MMA and are from the US or Japan, then Mirko probably. If you're in the rest of the world, then Luka.
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Really happy for you, adi.
Eastern-europeans are indeed often ridiculous about homosexuality and it's good to hear that things went relatively well for you. Can't even imagine how my dad would react if I were gay. He's totally brainwashed by this whole conservative putin-loving orthodox **** that's currently so popular in the former USSR.
Whereabouts are you/your dad from?

I was quite worried also about my dad's reaction as he exhibited nothing be extreme homophobia until he found out about me. Things tend to change once you realize your prejudice applies to your own flesh and blood. It's a lot harder to suddenly hate someone you've known and loved (I guess) your whole life.
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Yeah I heard that Russia is pretty crazy about homophobia right now.

Not to mention that whole tragic mess in Chechnya.
Still crazy to think that this really happened so recently.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anti-g...es_in_Chechnya
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I'm glad that you found some happiness adidasss!

Sidenote: Is Mirko "CroCop" Filipovic still the most famous person to come out of Croatia? LOL
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Sidenote: Is Mirko "CroCop" Filipovic still the most famous person to come out of Croatia? LOL


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Luka_Modri%C4%87
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One man can kick a soccer ball. The other can kick your head off your body. I go with CroCop.

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We're from the Ukraine but have been living in Germany for many years now.
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