The coming out thread - Take II

ladyislingering · 07-11-2014, 01:29 AM

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Originally Posted by WhateverDude

...How is there a wrong answer on that test? I mean, idk. I'm always skeptical of these things. It's easy to say having sex with someone of the same gender is a turn on or however they word it but actually following through?

At least in my case, I've had plenty homosexual fantasies but of the times I've actually tried to engage with a man... it just wasn't totally happening for me, not at those times anyways.

for real. sexuality and gender are both incredibly fluid concepts. how the hell could one answer "wrong" to anything regarding either is totally beyond me.

either way I love my boyfriend who is more of a woman than a man but has not decided on his pronouns. I call him "my beautiful wife" anyway.

~~James~~ · 07-11-2014, 03:31 AM

I got the same result a long time ago!

~~hate paper doll~~ · 07-11-2014, 03:37 AM

I've taken it a couple of times and consistently score a 2

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 07-11-2014, 03:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WhateverDude

...How is there a wrong answer on that test? I mean, idk. I'm always skeptical of these things. It's easy to say having sex with someone of the same gender is a turn on or however they word it but actually following through?

At least in my case, I've had plenty homosexual fantasies but of the times I've actually tried to engage with a man... it just wasn't totally happening for me, not at those times anyways.

I have hooked up with girls, and I liked it. I just haven't gone all the way.

The Batlord · 07-11-2014, 06:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

I thought this video was a great way to help people realise that bisexuality is acceptable and not just "a phase":

And I don't believe that everyone knows what there sexuality is, there are many confused people (like me) and it can years to know what you feel you are (sexually) inside. It's great if you do know, but for people who don't, telling them "how hard is it to know" is a bit simplistic.

Well, after watching the girl in that video I can be sure that I'm not gay. Me-ow.

But seriously, this whole homophobia thing doesn't just hurt the non-heteros. If I hadn't of experimented a bit I would have been paranoid that I was gay just for the fact that I wasn't disgusted by gay sex. Sexuality is confusing enough without the BS, and all I want is to know what kind of porn to jerk off to so I can get back to playing video games.

~~James~~ · 07-11-2014, 07:33 AM

I'm just not a very sexual person. I can only really get into sex if there's a lot of meaning and feeling behind it. Love gets me off.

Carpe Mortem · 07-11-2014, 08:16 AM

Before I started having sex, I'd identify myself as 60/40, favoring straight. I'd say that's bumped up to a 75/15 now that I love a dick and don't drink as much.

WWWP · 07-11-2014, 12:46 PM

3 - Equally heterosexual and homosexual.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 07-11-2014, 06:49 PM

Lmao I remember I took the Kinsey test a long time ago and it told me I was mostly homosexual and that was before I realised I was bisexual

I pretty much am more interested in women even though I have a lot of boytoys and the person who has my heart is a dude.

Good looking men with great personalities are a lot more difficult to find than hot women with great personalities though, its tragic, I feel bad for straight girls.

Rjinn · 07-11-2014, 08:00 PM

Yeah I got a 6 on that test. As to be expected.

GAY FOR STAY.

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Carpe Mortem Crusher of tiny Nords Join Date: Mar 2014 Location: Ugly Bag of Mostly Water Posts: 1,363	Before I started having sex, I'd identify myself as 60/40, favoring straight. I'd say that's bumped up to a 75/15 now that I love a dick and don't drink as much. __________________ [SIG][/SIG] Mirth is King Be Loving & Open With My Emotions

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Rjinn The Aerosol in your Soul Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: New South Wales, Australia Posts: 1,546	Yeah I got a 6 on that test. As to be expected. GAY FOR STAY. __________________ last.fm

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~~James~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 4,483	I got the same result a long time ago!

07-11-2014, 03:37 AM	#113 (permalink)
~~hate paper doll~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Apr 2014 Posts: 423	I've taken it a couple of times and consistently score a 2

07-11-2014, 07:33 AM	#116 (permalink)
~~James~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 4,483	I'm just not a very sexual person. I can only really get into sex if there's a lot of meaning and feeling behind it. Love gets me off.

07-11-2014, 06:49 PM	#119 (permalink)
~~Sansa Stark~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: The Eyrie, Vale of Arryn, Westeros Posts: 3,234	Lmao I remember I took the Kinsey test a long time ago and it told me I was mostly homosexual and that was before I realised I was bisexual I pretty much am more interested in women even though I have a lot of boytoys and the person who has my heart is a dude. Good looking men with great personalities are a lot more difficult to find than hot women with great personalities though, its tragic, I feel bad for straight girls.