Social Alienation

OccultHawk · 04-20-2011, 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Il Duce

I feel totally disconnected from reality some times.

Especially on 4/20!

djchameleon · 04-20-2011, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by pooka

this is not healthy behavior if it is recent. seek some professional help.

rofl What?

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Originally Posted by pooka

bullskitt. when late teens develop emotional and social instability they tend to do horrible things, like abuse drugs and break the law etc.
dont pass out bad advice whats wrong with you? if this kid posted asking this question seriously it SHOULD BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY. i hate that you would brush off a semi-offhand plea for help.
grow the eff up.

That's not necessarily the case all the time. He just got the problem recently give him some time to figure out if it's a long term thing or just a phase before you go wanting to get him a therapist and drugging him up with meds that he doesn't need

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Originally Posted by Odyshape

Lately these days I seem to be socially alienated by everyone around me. Im not entirely sure why but I think I can go long periods of time not thinking or I just don't have the energy to talk to people sometimes. Anyone else seem to have this problem? For me its pretty well be pretty recent im usually a generally social person but ive hit some sort of wall. It gets me down sometimes any ideas whats up? Oh and im in last year high school if it helps haha probably at some kind of hormonal imbalance or something

oh can someone move this to the lounge please my bad

This sounds like you are just going through a funk if you still feel this way all throughout the summer which I doubt you will then maybe you should seek some help.

CanwllCorfe · 04-20-2011, 12:27 PM

I have that problem all the time. I just feel no reason to talk to people, so I normally don't. Back in the day I'd be at the mall, and just being around people was "social" to me. I won't talk to people for months and not even realize it. Then they come to me and they're like "man where have you been!" Or whatever. Something like that. I had 2 close friends who I hung out with all the time move down to Florida. I was upset for a few days, and haven't talked to them since. They're on my Facebook, but I just don't care. There's something wrong I imagine, but I'll get it fixed in time. Maybe this summer. I'm more bothered by my lack of focus.

djchameleon · 04-20-2011, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by CanwllCorfe

I have that problem all the time. I just feel no reason to talk to people, so I normally don't. Back in the day I'd be at the mall, and just being around people was "social" to me. I won't talk to people for months and not even realize it. Then they come to me and they're like "man where have you been!" Or whatever. Something like that.

lol I know that feeling and when I run into them and see them walking over to me I already know what they are going to say.

Burning Down · 04-20-2011, 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by CanwllCorfe

I have that problem all the time. I just feel no reason to talk to people, so I normally don't. Back in the day I'd be at the mall, and just being around people was "social" to me. I won't talk to people for months and not even realize it. Then they come to me and they're like "man where have you been!" Or whatever. Something like that. I had 2 close friends who I hung out with all the time move down to Florida. I was upset for a few days, and haven't talked to them since. They're on my Facebook, but I just don't care. There's something wrong I imagine, but I'll get it fixed in time. Maybe this summer. I'm more bothered by my lack of focus.

I get like that too sometimes. I have no idea why.

Howard the Duck · 04-20-2011, 11:21 PM

the current staff is completely mundane, I feel no urge to discourse with them (or intercourse with any of them)

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 04-20-2011, 11:31 PM

I'm alienated. I got abducted and anal raped by aliens and now am with alien child.

Sparky · 04-21-2011, 04:09 AM

I agree, what the **** pooka?

I would recommend drugs if your bored, just keep it on the dl.Get some friends on xbox live or a cat.

Theyres always alternatives.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 04-21-2011, 04:17 AM

erm...is it ironic her name on Muzic Forums is downlow?

I want a kitty

EvilChuck · 04-21-2011, 05:55 AM

Being a generally social person as you say you are, means that people find you easy to talk to. As such, I'd also assume that extends to them talking about their problems with you as well; a problem shared is a problem halved etc. But as we all know from our own lives, if you listen to other people's problems, you start to worry about these people. Too much of it can get you down, especially if you have alot of people telling their stuff.

If you need some time on your own because you are having trouble dealing with what people put on you, or just to gather your own thoughts, then take that time. Find someone that you can vent to as well, even if its people online like someone from this forum.

04-20-2011, 12:27 PM	#13 (permalink)
CanwllCorfe Quiet Man in the Corner Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Pocono Mountains Posts: 2,480	I have that problem all the time. I just feel no reason to talk to people, so I normally don't. Back in the day I'd be at the mall, and just being around people was "social" to me. I won't talk to people for months and not even realize it. Then they come to me and they're like "man where have you been!" Or whatever. Something like that. I had 2 close friends who I hung out with all the time move down to Florida. I was upset for a few days, and haven't talked to them since. They're on my Facebook, but I just don't care. There's something wrong I imagine, but I'll get it fixed in time. Maybe this summer. I'm more bothered by my lack of focus. __________________ Your eyes were never yet let in to see the majesty and riches of the mind, but dwell in darkness; for your God is blind.

04-20-2011, 11:31 PM	#17 (permalink)
Scarlett O'Hara Make it so Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 6,181	I'm alienated. I got abducted and anal raped by aliens and now am with alien child. __________________ "Elph is truly an enfant terrible of the forum, bless and curse him" - Marie, Queen of Thots

04-21-2011, 04:17 AM	#19 (permalink)
Scarlett O'Hara Make it so Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 6,181	erm...is it ironic her name on Muzic Forums is downlow? I want a kitty __________________ "Elph is truly an enfant terrible of the forum, bless and curse him" - Marie, Queen of Thots

04-20-2011, 11:21 PM	#16 (permalink)
Howard the Duck Live by the Sword Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia Posts: 9,075	the current staff is completely mundane, I feel no urge to discourse with them (or intercourse with any of them)

04-21-2011, 04:09 AM	#18 (permalink)
Sparky not really Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 5,223	I agree, what the **** pooka? I would recommend drugs if your bored, just keep it on the dl.Get some friends on xbox live or a cat. Theyres always alternatives.

04-21-2011, 05:55 AM	#20 (permalink)
EvilChuck #based Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: (Near) London, England Posts: 443	Being a generally social person as you say you are, means that people find you easy to talk to. As such, I'd also assume that extends to them talking about their problems with you as well; a problem shared is a problem halved etc. But as we all know from our own lives, if you listen to other people's problems, you start to worry about these people. Too much of it can get you down, especially if you have alot of people telling their stuff. If you need some time on your own because you are having trouble dealing with what people put on you, or just to gather your own thoughts, then take that time. Find someone that you can vent to as well, even if its people online like someone from this forum.