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GeddyBass2112 I need some social skills... 03-20-2011, 05:31 PM

[MERIT] It sounds to me that you... 03-20-2011, 05:37 PM

GeddyBass2112 My major problem is that I... 03-20-2011, 05:47 PM

Sansa Stark Why is it such a huge concern? 03-20-2011, 06:04 PM

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GeddyBass2112 The problem is that it just... 03-20-2011, 06:14 PM

Sansa Stark So? As long as you have... 03-20-2011, 06:50 PM

holly984 Try not to worry about what... 03-20-2011, 06:53 PM

Freebase Dali Why is this a bad thing? If... 03-20-2011, 08:15 PM

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03-20-2011, 08:15 PM

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Freebase Dali

Partying on the inside

Join Date: Mar 2009

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Quote:

Originally Posted by GeddyBass2112

The problem is that it just seems that I have nothing AT ALL in common with anyone I've met my age, both with the actual interests themselves and also the way these people think. As I said, most girls to me seem to be superficial- they're interested in their clothes or hair or whatever, yet show little ability to show interest in anything else.

Why is this a bad thing?
If you ask me, I wish there were more girls like you. I think you should see this as a sign of evolution, and enjoy your position on the top of the social-intellectual chain. It may net you quite a lonely existence, and nerdy boyfriends (Me!!! Please?), but you'll be far more fulfilled even at the prospect of connecting with someone on your level, than dumbing yourself down for the sake of a connection that really doesn't mean anything to you.

I think you should worry less about you not relating to most other chicks, and more about them not relating to you.