The Science

djchameleon · 03-17-2011, 01:59 AM

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Originally Posted by GravitySlips

You can VERY easily turn any of those "boring" questions into an interesting conversation. Every guy in the place might ask these questions, but it's all in the body language and way you speak, look and act while conversing - and the ability to turn that normal question into a fascinating conversation. Most guys aren't good at making good conversation with girls, from my experience. Starting with a pre-determined line is all well and good, but if that's being used in place of real confidence and real ability to make good conversation on the spot, then you're only going to get so far.

Asking a question like "which sex lies more" does not necessarily lead to a more interesting conversation, by any means. It's definitely a fun question to ask, I just wouldn't use it to break the ice ahead of something more "normal".

Just like you said about easily turning those "boring" questions into something interesting the same thing can be said for the bolded part it all falls down to the individual and how confident they are and their conversation skills so basically we are both saying the same thing just with different approaches.

~~[MERIT]~~ · 03-17-2011, 02:30 AM

Single guys wish they could find a girl to marry and be with forever.

Married guys wish they were single and had never met the b*tch

People just want what they can't have.

Dr_Rez · 03-23-2011, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by oojay

Single guys wish they could find a girl to marry and be with forever.

Married guys wish they were single and had never met the b*tch

People just want what they can't have.

I dont think that really always true. If a guys married he may want that hot single broad, which he could technically go get, but at the end of the day he likes having 1 woman.

crukster · 03-23-2011, 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Oojay

Single guys wish they could find a girl to marry and be with forever.

Married guys wish they were single and had never met the b*tch

People just want what they can't have.

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Originally Posted by RezZ

I dont think that really always true. If a guys married he may want that hot single broad, which he could technically go get, but at the end of the day he likes having 1 woman.

I'd say it all depends really, if he marries the hottest single broad he wouldn't wanna look anywhere else for any others.

Dr_Rez · 03-23-2011, 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by crukster

I'd say it all depends really, if he marries the hottest single broad he wouldn't wanna look anywhere else for any others.

I just mean he may look. For instance if im with a great looking girlfriend I still looking at other women and imagine. That doesnt mean I want to jump up and get with them.

~~Dirty~~ · 03-23-2011, 05:31 PM

I'm going out to the bars Friday with a group of girls I've become friends with. They have a friend who isn't quite 21 who I have a thing for. I'm hoping she's pregaming with us Friday so I can flirt with her and get to know her better. But I don't usually go out with a group of girls, I don't have too many female friends anymore. Burned a lot of bridges over the years. I'm interested to see if this has any effect on meeting girls at the bar. I also plan to go out Saturday night and find some girls. I'll report back on my findings.

Dr_Rez · 03-23-2011, 05:36 PM

Good luck Dirty.

I have a question for whomever wants to answer. My biggest problem with new girls Im meeting taking out/going on date with and such is I never know how fast they want to move. Obviously being a guy I dont mind moving real quickly and theres definitely a small portion of girls that do as well. (usually they make it quite obvious) The rest though confuse me, as I have dated one that took over a month and others that I would suggest it within a couple days of meeting/going out with them and get no clear answer.

Now I am not really shy, Ill try mostly anyhting with anyone I please, but I take care in this because as any guy knows some girls that are pushed to fast think your just a pig.

Whats funny to me is that just because I want to have sex/hookup with you doesn't mean I dont actually like you. I cant help that Im a 20 year old male with a strong libido.

crukster · 03-23-2011, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Dirty

I'm going out to the bars Friday with a group of girls I've become friends with. They have a friend who isn't quite 21 who I have a thing for. I'm hoping she's pregaming with us Friday so I can flirt with her and get to know her better. But I don't usually go out with a group of girls, I don't have too many female friends anymore. Burned a lot of bridges over the years. I'm interested to see if this has any effect on meeting girls at the bar. I also plan to go out Saturday night and find some girls. I'll report back on my findings.

It definitly helps to have girls with you when you go out, I've noticed other girls tend to feel more confortable/relaxed if they see them with you, makes you seem more trustworthy. I've never been out with a whole group of girls but meh same principle I reckon.

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Originally Posted by RezZ

Good luck Dirty.

I have a question for whomever wants to answer. My biggest problem with new girls Im meeting taking out/going on date with and such is I never know how fast they want to move. Obviously being a guy I dont mind moving real quickly and theres definitely a small portion of girls that do as well. (usually they make it quite obvious) The rest though confuse me, as I have dated one that took over a month and others that I would suggest it within a couple days of meeting/going out with them and get no clear answer.

Now I am not really shy, Ill try mostly anyhting with anyone I please, but I take care in this because as any guy knows some girls that are pushed to fast think your just a pig.

Whats funny to me is that just because I want to have sex/hookup with you doesn't mean I dont actually like you. I cant help that Im a 20 year old male with a strong libido.

lol I don't think there was an actual question there but I get what you're getting at. Just don't overthink too much man. If you're feeling it, make an advance, you know; "arm around the chair at the cinema" and all that, just flirt with her and let it progress naturally, you'll make a move, she'll make a move back etc.

like a horny game of chess. man I miss horny chess I need to get out more. I always get checkmated in the first 3 moves but damn it's a fun game. it's like my brother's friend always used to say "It's all about the chase mate "

Dr_Rez · 03-23-2011, 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by crukster

It definitly helps to have girls with you when you go out, I've noticed other girls tend to feel more confortable/relaxed if they see them with you, makes you seem more trustworthy. I've never been out with a whole group of girls but meh same principle I reckon.

lol I don't think there was an actual question there but I get what you're getting at. Just don't overthink too much man. If you're feeling it, make an advance, you know; "arm around the chair at the cinema" and all that, just flirt with her and let it progress naturally, you'll make a move, she'll make a move back etc.

like a horny game of chess. man I miss horny chess I need to get out more. I always get checkmated in the first 3 moves but damn it's a fun game. it's like my brother's friend always used to say "It's all about the chase mate "

Sluts are so simple. You both know exactly what the other wants.

crukster · 03-23-2011, 07:41 PM

Just go out with sluts then if you dig that, you don't have to wanna marry every chick you meet

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Dr_Rez Registered Jimmy Rustler Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: USA Posts: 5,360	Good luck Dirty. I have a question for whomever wants to answer. My biggest problem with new girls Im meeting taking out/going on date with and such is I never know how fast they want to move. Obviously being a guy I dont mind moving real quickly and theres definitely a small portion of girls that do as well. (usually they make it quite obvious) The rest though confuse me, as I have dated one that took over a month and others that I would suggest it within a couple days of meeting/going out with them and get no clear answer. Now I am not really shy, Ill try mostly anyhting with anyone I please, but I take care in this because as any guy knows some girls that are pushed to fast think your just a pig. Whats funny to me is that just because I want to have sex/hookup with you doesn't mean I dont actually like you. I cant help that Im a 20 year old male with a strong libido. __________________ Best chance of losing virginity is in prison crew Always Checks Credentials Crew nba > nfl crew Shave one of my legs to pretend its a girl in my bed crew

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03-23-2011, 05:31 PM	#76 (permalink)
~~Dirty~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: USA Posts: 981	I'm going out to the bars Friday with a group of girls I've become friends with. They have a friend who isn't quite 21 who I have a thing for. I'm hoping she's pregaming with us Friday so I can flirt with her and get to know her better. But I don't usually go out with a group of girls, I don't have too many female friends anymore. Burned a lot of bridges over the years. I'm interested to see if this has any effect on meeting girls at the bar. I also plan to go out Saturday night and find some girls. I'll report back on my findings.

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crukster Music Addict Join Date: Dec 2010 Posts: 181	Just go out with sluts then if you dig that, you don't have to wanna marry every chick you meet