Sansa Stark

I'm talking about any relationships. Like Andrei said, you need to love yourself first. If you gain your worth from other people, what are you going to do when they are gone? Relationships like that are taxing on both parties, and are parasitic. Relationships are a good means of support, but ABOVE ALL you should be in love with yourself more than anyone else. Otherwise it leads to aforementioned parasitic relationships, you lend yourself to a role that is easily manipulated by another person.

Arya Stark

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Dr_Rez

I dont mean to disrupt a good conversation but this thread is definitely straying from its intended purpose and because a catalyst for an argument/debate on roles of men vs women in society.

I only say this because I like the thread idea and Id like to see it be used. Therefore Ill present a question for anyone to answer since I would have a hard time describing it myself.

You mention "negs" which I think most guys understand a little bit but dont ever use (myself included) because they dont know how to implement them or dont want to be viewed as an arsehole. So explain what exactly it is and how exactly one could pull it off.

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djchameleon

You want to come off a little bit like an arsehole that's one of the points but okay I will give you an example of a neg I threw this girl. Sure it was just on facebook but I would have done the same thing had I seen her irl. I just didn't like her outfit lol.

I think picking apart their outfit/shoes is the nicest and easiest neg to pull off and it may even spark conversation about what men think looks good on girls vs what they spend all that time getting ready for and still look like a hot mess.
The whole judging of the outfit and using it as a neg varies from girl to girl obviously. If see a girl looks like she's very proud of what she is wearing or looks a little overdressed for the place that she's attending let her have it.

Okay back to my example I went off on a tangent.

This girl posted a picture of this outfit that she was so proud of and guys were leaving her a bunch of meaningless empty compliments. So , I decided to go against the flow of all that "smoke blowing up her butt". I told her "your outfit is okay but that belt you have around your waist is a bit much and throws off the whole outfit." Well this neg didn't work on her as I'm guess negs don't really work as well online. It was my first time trying it out online for experimental purposes. Anyways, I noticed someone commented on her pic the other day and I went through looking for my comment to see if she responded and all she did was delete the negative comment which wasn't even that by it was just my opinion of her "perfect" outfit.

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djchameleon

Okay I promised to jot down some of the lingo that I will be using and explain it before hand so when I get to the techniques part you won't be as lost.

Avatar - creating an avatar is something that is simple. The point of an avatar is to go give yourself a makeover essentially. You want to get a few clothes that make you stand out in the sea of buttoned up shirts that the majority of guys wear at clubs.
(personally I don't agree too much with avatars, like wear whatever the f you want just as long as you are clean and comfortable. The only part of creating an avatar that I agree with is having some slight thing that stands out on you, that you could use as a conversation starter. For example, this is very simple but you can't believe how effective it is. Since i'm obessed with my shades, I would wear my night shades out when I go to clubs. Of course , most women laughed and thought I was an idiot for wearing shades at night but when the few that asked me why I was wearing them while giggling at me. I had this line prepared ahead of time "I have to wear my shades at night because my future is so bright. Would you care to take a glimpse into my future? if they said yes then that's how the conversation would start out about what's going on in my life and I would find out what they are doing with their life as well.)

Set - this is just the term for a group. The group can consist of all females or a mixed group of females and males. or it can be all males if you are into that and are in that kind of club.

Field - This term means anywhere you go to practice and hone your skills. The most common field is a bar/club but the field can be a simple place like a mall or local library as well.

Target - I will mention this quite often, it just refers to a woman/man that you have set your sights on getting to know better.

Wingman - I'm fairly sure most of you know what this means but I will explain in detail anyways. A wingman is anyone that helps you to look better in the eyes of your target. They also do various other jobs. They can block out alpha females for you in a set. They can protect you from grenades. They can also go out and scout the target for you to initiate the conversation if you are a bit too shy to start it up yourself. They play off of your best qualities.

Grenade - I had a different term for this but ever since Jersey Shore, I like it so I use it more often now. When I use the term grenade, I don't mean it in the same way they do. They use it in a horrible way to claim that a girl is ugly. The way I use it is somewhat similar but I wouldn't say the girl is ugly. The girl is just not high on your lists of things that you look for in a girl. For example, Dirty has a friend that loves bigger women. In his books, a slim cheerleader type girl would be a grenade because that's not what he prefers in his women.

(I will edit this list and add more later on)

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Dr_Rez

Thats to funny. I wonder how much that actually happens, aka how many bad things are deleted in a day. Its sad that someone cant take a small remark like that.

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djchameleon

I have a question for the guys out there

What is your stance on dating a woman that has a kid/kids?

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Dr_Rez

Im doing that right now. I dont like kids so guess we are not gona last to long! Good times in the meantime though. Her fault, shouldnt be 22 with a 1 year old. Call me an arsehole but seriously WWJD!

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djchameleon

I had to deal with a 19 year old girl that had a 1 year old.

I think I found the secret to dating a woman that has kids.

Enjoy it while it lasts and remember you are dating the woman and she doesn't want you in her life to take care of the kid so it shouldn't be that big of a deal.

Unless you can clearly tell that is her intentions is to find a daddy for the kid or a baby daddy for that matter to help her pay for the child's expenses then I would run in the complete opposite direction.

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Fame, fortune, power, titties. People say these are the most crucial things in life, but you can have a pocket full o' gold and it doesn't mean sh*t if you don't have someone to share that gold with. Seems simple. Yet it's an important lesson to learn. Even lone wolves run in packs sometimes.

Dr_Rez

I find it amazing that people used to have kids at that age ALL THE TIME not so many years ago. I mean the lifespan of a human was barely that much lower. I cant imagine feeling obligated to have a kid because of social standards in my late teens early twenties.

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