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Old 04-27-2011, 06:21 PM   #231 (permalink)
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This is very true.



The saying tall dark and handsome came from somewhere but it's pretty true for the most part. Women tend to prefer taller guys and by dark I don't mean skin tone but mysterious and having a certain edge/bad boy streak.

Oh forgot the mention the well toned part....a "must have" is nice arms toned and some flat abs are the normal bonus features they typically look for.
Yeah I obviously didn't mean skin tone either but you are compounding a view of womens views of men that is not always true. This is OUR view of what we think that women want that is not always true.

There is some truth in the fact that some women like the bad boy aspect of men but that (in my view) is affiliated with initial sexual attraction in that a man that lives or acts a little more dangerously is INSTANTLY appealing but not always their ideal partner.

I have seen some immensely attractive women married to very average guys and I am sure that at the end of the day they want someone to make them feel safe, protected and ultimately worshiped and you find that really good looking guys can be absolute tools and treat women like crap and women don't want this.

I could be wrong. Female views please!
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Old 04-27-2011, 06:25 PM   #232 (permalink)
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Just as much as men can be shallow.
I wasn't even slightly serious. It was a generalization with tongue and cheek. My apologies to all the deep women out there.
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Old 04-27-2011, 06:25 PM   #233 (permalink)
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Yeah I obviously didn't mean skin tone either but you are compounding a view of womens views of men that is not always true. This is OUR view of what we think that women want that is not always true.

There is some truth in the fact that some women like the bad boy aspect of men but that (in my view) is affiliated with initial sexual attraction in that a man that lives or acts a little more dangerously is INSTANTLY appealing but not always their ideal partner.

I have seen some immensely attractive women married to very average guys and I am sure that at the end of the day they want someone to make them feel safe, protected and ultimately worshiped and you find that really good looking guys can be absolute tools and treat women like crap and women don't want this.

I could be wrong. Female views please!
That's true, I'm feeding into the whole what men think that women want instead of letting them voice what they want so go ahead ladies you have the floor.

I also wanted to mention that last part about the tools that treat their women like crap. I feel like women don't really want that but they end up staying with a guy that treats them like crap because of the image of the guy that they fell in love with and they feel like that's his true nature when he just lied to them and made up that image so that he could get with them and then over time he shows his true nature and they don't want to accept that it is his true nature.
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Old 04-27-2011, 06:27 PM   #234 (permalink)
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That's true, I'm feeding into the whole what men think that women want instead of letting them voice what they want so go ahead ladies you have the floor.

I also wanted to mention that last part about the tools that treat their women like crap. I feel like women don't really want that but they end up staying with a guy that treats them like crap because of the image of the guy that they fell in love with and they feel like that's his true nature when he just lied to them and made up that image so that he could get with them and then over time he shows his true nature and they don't want to accept that it is his true nature.
I also find that some women actually follow patterns with regard to abusive mates. Once they have exited from a non harmonious relationship they tend to get involved in another abusive relationship after due to low self esteem brought on from the abuse.
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Old 04-27-2011, 06:28 PM   #235 (permalink)
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I also find that some women actually follow patterns with regard to abusive mates. Once they have exited from a non harmonious relationship they tend to get involved in another abusive relationship after due to low self esteem brought on from the abuse.
yes a sense of Stockholm syndrome
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Old 04-27-2011, 06:41 PM   #236 (permalink)
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I wasn't even slightly serious. It was a generalization with tongue and cheek. My apologies to all the deep women out there.
Hehe that's okay.
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my take on it is that male and female are obviously attracted to exotica, something other than the Joe/Jane next door
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Old 04-28-2011, 03:53 AM   #238 (permalink)
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Not necessarily true. I prefer small and perky with non-child bearing hips and a small waist. The child bearing part couldn't be more of a turn-off in the end run.
Yeah but how old are you out of curiosity? How is child bearing a turn off? (e.g. curvy hips and plump breasts?)
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Old 04-28-2011, 05:03 AM   #239 (permalink)
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my take on it is that male and female are obviously attracted to exotica, something other than the Joe/Jane next door
I would agree with you but then there is s_k and he prefers the Janes next door.
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just FYI, I lurve squeezing them fats
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