Like my second date with this girl I dated for a few months in high school... Second or third date, I don't really remember but I'm like 17, she's 15 and I'm driving her home. I get out, walk with her to her door and try to plant my first kiss and she just kinda turns her face and i kinda kiss the side of her head.

An awkward 3 seconds followed and i got in my ride and left... haha that was embarrassing, glad it didn't work out with her. that was a microcosm of our relationship

A girl told me this once... it was pretty fucked up.

She was like, "I love you... but only sometimes. Not all the time."

I was like, "That's some pretty fucked up shit there, I'll ttyl. Need to process all this shit."

From there I was like, yeah I'll move on now.

I liked a dude for like a year and a half and one day my friends and I were talking about him and one of my friends stole my phone, called him, and asked him out for me. I got rejected without even knowing what she had done. Then she handed me the phone. That **** sucked.

Also, I was in love with this girl (one of my best friends) for a year at least. After courting her for a while, she finally gave me a chance and I planned out a date and everything. I was going to take her out somewhere and spoil her. A week before I got home from school, a week before the date, I found out she had been asked to go out with a mutual friend of ours. She said yes. They have been dating for over a year now.

Lawl. Story of my life.

You can always take me out and spoil meeeeeeeeeee

kbrt. :love:

This is sad. Your friend is a **** for doing that. And the girl who stood you up is clearly missing out! If I ever see her I'll cunt punt her for you. :love:

I like where this is going

I once drunkenly danced up to a girl in a club, asked her if she wanted a drink, she sternly said no and I danced straight back to my friends... didnt halt the moves for one second.

In my defence I was battered.

that doesn't seem like such a bad rejection

It was, it really was. Especially as all my friends were watching me and all her friends too. The emphatic nature of her answer made it worse.

okay the reasons why it wasn't so bad.....one you were drunk and dancing....you asked her if she wanted a drink , she rejected you and you were so smooth about it that you didn't pause your dancing any and just moved back to your original position....that's a pretty awesome way to react to a rejection

Dude that rejection is nothin. That's like my Thursday night routine half the time if you replace "ask to buy a drink" with "dance and grind on her without permission."

I guess my worst rejection would have to be when I bought a plane ticket to go visit this girl that I met online. She lived in Utah. When I got there to her place she didn't want me to stay there with her because she told me two days before I was about to leave that she didn't want me to come anymore. I was stubborn and said to myself that I'm going anyways. I was a little strapped so I ended up sleeping outside of her apartment in the hallway. The next day I ended up calling my aunt to buy me a bus ticket to Las Vegas where I stayed there with a family friend so I did get to enjoy my vacation even after that sucky rejection.

Lesson learned, don't date Mormons. :nono:

Oh, and I thought this one was pretty awesome: Worst Rejection Stories

I wish I had the balls to do that haha

lol....nice recovery to that rejection....awesome

she wasn't a mormon and she lived in Salt Lake City but I did learn a lesson from it though

I've never been rejected, solely based on the fact I can never muster up enough balls to ask the guys I like to do something.

Wow, you changed your name! When did this happen?

that's how I was in high school with females....I didn't have the confidence enough to even ask the girl I liked out on a date....if I got a return wink/smile from a girl I liked that was a good day:love:

Some point last week I'm sure :).

Yeah well typically I do spend alot of time with guys I like, but not in that "way". Sucks.

awww I'm sorry to hear that, you are stuck in the friends zone with guys that you like more than they like you....

Pretty much the story of my life, "wan ae the lads" grr.

Okayleigh, this is really simple.
You look good, right? Yes you do.
So every guy you hang out with (and I don't mean in a bar of at school, I mean a guy you go to stuff with, you have in your house etc.)
will want to try more with you, should you give him the chance.

It's really that simple. Believe me ;).

Not necessarily, sure they'd shag her if given the opportunity but as far as dating goes, if they said already they don't like her that way then their minds aren't just going to change overnight.

D'aaawwww you're so cute. :love:

:laughing:

That's true. I just mean she has opportunities everywhere. I guess she actually has to be careful with that.

I think I may have just rejected a friend, which sucks for him but I warned him. I'm a ****ing flight risk, and I told him several times. So now he's getting all attached and I had to be firm and remind him, and now he's apparently grown some ovaries and started menstruating. I suck at relationships with people, especially men. I prefer this single thing. It's much more entertaining.

I rejected someone once. I didn't like her at all and she knew I really enjoy music.

Her: "Yeah... music is life."
Me: "Your taste in life sucks."

too harsh?

I lol'd. Better blunt than just lying haha

Meowing at random cats in the street, just for them to shun my attention. It never fails to hurt me.

Felines can be ice cold.

:'l

that's perfect did it work though?

I have had to constantly reject some clingy girls and because they are sooo in love with me it doesn't work and they still flirt with me and hang onto the idea that we could be together one day and it's NEVER going to happen.

I had this one girl that liked me so much that she would pretend to be her "cousin" on AOL Instant Messenger. She lied to me about all kinds of stuff to impress me. Even that she was so hardcore (HXC!!!!) that she stabbed her mattress because she was so angry. She also said she owned a pet Liger. When I googled Liger and got the picture she gave me (literally the first result) I pretty much told her she was a habitual liar that was borderline stalking me (calling me without me giving her my number).

She cried and I blocked her.
The End!

what kind of stalker was she that it was over after that? I thought she would have been a bit more persistent.

kirby... I think thats called grooming...

She was more of a stalker in that she called me, and I had never given her my phone number and what not.
She would also try to talk to my girlfriend all the time and try to make her angry or upset about stupid ****, and it never really worked.

ooh okay alright I get it. Damn, she was stalked your whole life!

I can't tell if I'm being rejected or not right now...

I met this girl on an online dating site. Most of the people I have met doing this are crazies, but this girl is like...my perfect girl. We hit it off right away...she gets in touch with me I get in touch with her. We even work at the same place so she pops by and we hang out sometimes. As soon as I ask her to dinner she doesn't respond. But she doesn't say no either. First time around a day after I asked her, she said she was busy and I know she was, so I figured it was legit. I just asked her out again this weekend and it's the same thing all over again.

This is confusing the **** out of me...I just want a straight answer...JESUS

it's up to you but I would forget about her and move on. If she can't give you a simple straight answer and keeps stringing you along like that, she isn't worth it. Even if you are busy, you can still get in contact with someone to say upfront "hey i'm busy" if you cared enough to do so. I wouldn't give her anymore chances. Especially nowadays when there are so many ways to communicate with people email, cell phone call even a stupid facebook message something.

This is what you should say to her. Just use her name instead of JESUS.

Hahaha, it wasn't that bad, but still.
It did go on for a year or two, though. I just summarized the whole thing.


Also, Duga, sadly I agree with djchameleon.