The Confessional Thread

[Sansa Stark]

Originally Posted by ladyislingering

I've gotten pretty skilled at distancing myself from everyone just to avoid hating them/having my feelings hurt

but I fear there will come a day when it just won't work

It gets tougher and tougher especially when feelings just hit you out of nowhere, I usually have something that triggers them and then I'm like ****, I give up

[Dr_Rez]

Originally Posted by ladyislingering

I've gotten pretty skilled at distancing myself from everyone just to avoid hating them/having my feelings hurt

but I fear there will come a day when it just won't work

I dont mean any offense by this, only to help...but that is a cowardly way to live life. That being said I often find myself doing the same thing and have to remind myself the only reason we are here is to connect with other people, if we do not do that whats the point.

[butthead aka 216]

Originally Posted by Rezdaddy Longlegs

I dont mean any offense by this, only to help...but that is a cowardly way to live life. That being said I often find myself doing the same thing and have to remind myself the only reason we are here is to connect with other people, if we do not do that whats the point.

well said


i think a lot of ppl get complacent with their loser lives too. i have at points til a wave of motivation and clarity hits me and i get movin on the right track. i know so many ppl who got so used to livin one way that they cant find it in themselves to try anythin else. so they are always stuck whinin and bitchin about their lives instead of tryin to improve it. like i said ive been there at different times but in general i think a lot of ppl kinda wanna be unhappy in some sick way