The Confessional Thread

[Sansa Stark]

Originally Posted by djchameleon

it was more important than this discussion but wasn't even in this thread and if it was it disappeared quick enough that not many saw but it's good that you saw and were able to offer support even though you felt the need to talk down to everyone else that wasn't able to see it in time.

Yeah I didn't want to call attention to it, like I said. The matter was dealt with privately by people who care about him rather than make it a "look at me! look at me!" opportunity.

But again let's probably just drop this matter for the looky loos.

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by Hermione

Yeah I didn't want to call attention to it, like I said. The matter was dealt with privately by people who care about him rather than make it a "look at me! look at me!" opportunity.

It was still made a "look at me! look at me!" opportunity though once it was mentioned only make it look like others posting in this thread at the same time didn't care.

[Sansa Stark]

Originally Posted by djchameleon

It was still made a "look at me! look at me!" opportunity though once it was mentioned only make it look like others posting in this thread at the same time didn't care.

Its hard to know what to do when someone says something like that in a public forum, but it's especially ****ed up when people just ignore it to blather on about bollocking twat****

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by Hermione

Its hard to know what to do when someone says something like that in a public forum, but it's especially ****ed up when people just ignore it to blather on about bollocking twat****

see that's the thing, if more people saw it I doubt that it would have been ignored. More support would have been added.

[Sansa Stark]

Yeah but you can't exactly put the blame on the poster, can you? Maybe people should pay attention to their surroundings better rather than living with their heads up their own arses

[djchameleon]

No, I'm not putting the blame on the poster. I'm just saying it's a little out of hand to get all uppity about not noticing something that happened so quickly lol.

[Sansa Stark]

Originally Posted by djchameleon

No, I'm not putting the blame on the poster. I'm just saying it's a little out of hand to get all uppity about not noticing something that happened so quickly lol.

No one's getting uppity though, it's actually a serious issue & worth getting "uppity" about. I would reconsider your choice of words as it may suggest that the matter is flippant rather than serious

[djchameleon]

I know it's a serious issue but the uppity part I'm talking about is putting down everyone else that wasn't quick enough to notice it like we don't care when I'm sure others do care as much as the people that noticed it.

[Sansa Stark]

Originally Posted by djchameleon

I know it's a serious issue but the uppity part I'm talking about is putting down everyone else that wasn't quick enough to notice it like we don't care when I'm sure others do care as much as the people that noticed it.

I'm just letting you know how it might be perceived, it's not being said that you don't care but one might assumed otherwise, judging by your choice of words and defense of people who didn't say anything about it. Of course, I know differently, but I'm just saying that's how it looked.

This is going to go around in a circle lmao let's stop it here

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by Hermione

I'm just letting you know how it might be perceived, it's not being said that you don't care but one might assumed otherwise, judging by your choice of words and defense of people who didn't say anything about it. Of course, I know differently, but I'm just saying that's how it looked.

This is going to go around in a circle lmao let's stop it here

Yes, I was going to say something similar