What's even worse is if you're so defensive about an opinion that is harmful and reinforces patriarchy, you probably aren't a good person like you purport yourself to be

#girlgang

A mother to human children IS a full time job either with 1 or 10 IMO :)

I can't speak for the other ladies who said this, but I don't think there is anything wrong with getting pregnant, it's more the people who were nasty at school didn't make themselves into what they expected. I may be circling around the point here but that's how I feel about those girls, not everybody else.

Else, how could I justify me being born?

I appreciate you discussing this with me.

I get excited for other women who get pregnant, but it is not for me. I've got my hands full already, thaaaaaanks.

I'm secretly in love with Hermione.

So you're just putting yourself on their level, and in your own words, making yourself the nasty one. And making their pregnancies to be misfortunes, as if you are somehow better for not getting pregnant. Like pregnancy is something to be ashamed of.

I just know people who got pregnant and if people were like AHAHA THIS BITCH I HATE GOT PREGNANT, TOO BAD FOR HER, I would want to punch them in the face.
I would tell them that my friend, acquaintance, etc, is better than anything the other person could ever aspire to be.
Cause how can you be anything good when you look down on others for something so natural and so hard to do?

You're right, but not to their face so I'm not hurting them in person as they did to me. I'm absolutely not better or worse.

Have you ever been nasty to someone? I don't think you can really accuse me unless you've never done it yourself.

Why are you being so defensive about your opinion? Sounds like you care too much about what other people think.

Because it's my opinion? Duh.

Why are you avoiding my question?