When he dies, hopefully I will never hear about it.

Ahh yes.... mentally I find that I completely agree with you... my head says yes absolutely everyone that ever hurt me shall perish... In all actuality, this week I am faced with this situation, someone I loved very deeply for a very very VERY long time, and to be truthful I never thought in a million years this day would come, I never imagined, I would see this person as a shadow of themselves. Literally, and I find myself, no longer hurting from the pain they caused me, I find myself wanting to absorb their pain, so they don't suffer in any way shape or form. The weak are truly those who inflict their own sense of self loathing, internal struggles, and powerlessness on to people they claim to love... The emotional battle, that ensues after you are no longer with whomever it is that hurt you, and rendered you powerless in your own life bites, really it does, but as cliche as it sounds, time heals all wounds... and the anguish you feel will dissipate. I am only speaking from personal experience... which is all anyone can do... I no longer want to see the man that destroyed me over and over, leave this earth, because, I wouldn't have become the woman I am today without everything I went through, for him and because of him...

I would have been the same, personally. I always come back to being myself, but when others claim me it takes quite a while longer to recover Her

the only reason I have some of my peers from high school on Facebook is so that I can laugh at how all the pretty girls have gotten fat, pregnant, and repugnant. Now they all look as bad on the outside as they do on the inside.

it's only been 6 years since high school, ladies. How could you let yourselves go so badly?

I keep the cool girls as my friends to see how little they have changed apart from popping out kids instead of qualifications.

I always like to see how many kids the teen moms have managed to pop out since they were 16. I used to go as far as trying to find out how many different fathers there were too.

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how long? I think I know what you mean, but can you explain?

Getting pregnant isn't a sign of someone being lower than you. Judging people for it is, though.

I know many people who have gotten pregnant and realized that being a mother is what they needed to push them to succeed in life.

At the end of the day most people are judgemental and we are being honest about it because the thread is for confessions. It doesn't mean you're going to like it.

All I'm saying is that if you're judging someone as low just because got pregnant, you're much lower than they will ever be.

How can people disrespect other people for doing something we were meant to do?
Meanwhile like some of ya'll are still trying to find jobs and lives.
Like get your life.

Mothers I know are some of the strongest people I have ever met.