Just call me Quasar. If you don't I'll go on an autistic rampage.

I most likely have undiagnosed ADD. It's really common to miss in women. Going to get a diagnosis at some point but most of my ADD riddled colleagues think I have it and I calm down with Ritalin.

Me as a tomboy: :clap: :beer:

My confession: I love fart jokes, toilet jokes and would want to wear men’s underwear(boxer shorts) one day ha ha.

Feeling anxious as my ex-husband has been leaving voicemails saying he's breaking up with his girlfriend and moving to a new apartment and wants to talk. We rarely talk and this only happens when he's in between relationships. I wish he wanted to talk to his own children more than once or twice a year. He's very narcissistic and it triggers me when I hear from him. Last time he started contacting me (again, during a breakup) he insinuated he would like to reconcile (a completely crazy notion given our history and his non-involvement with our children) but I gingerly changed the topic and he started showing his temper to me. Anyway, I may or may not call back this weekend (else his messages will become more hostile) but just the thought of it is making my hands shake as I type this.

Text him back: **** off

on the contrary to Batlord's suggestion, have you ever considered blocking him?

You may want to consider getting a restraining order. Do you fear for your safety?

He hasn't texted this time, only voicemails - but it will eventually be texts too I think. Thanks for the suggestion, but I feel that will provoke him and make things worse.

No, I haven't - my approach has been to "manage" him over the years. I can usually do that successfully but it's stressful sometimes.