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Old 01-25-2013, 06:24 AM   #331 (permalink)
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Why would he keep a secret like that from his family?

I have stole from a 'convienience' store before.
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i havent i refuse to in fact. it triggers my ptsd from yrs ago when i thought my ex's anal beads were those edible candy necklaces
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Old 01-25-2013, 06:32 AM   #332 (permalink)
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Any reason why?
Oh yeah. I am a very candid person and well I've had a tumultuous life/past few years and it seems most men I befriend will try to be my ~rescuer and end up romantically interested in me and I don't like it. That's not the kind of relationship I like between friends. Women understand that when I'm complaining about how fucked up my life is, I just want to bitch, I don't want my life fixed. I do the fixing myself.

I only trust women when it comes to my truest feelings because they never judge me, call me weak for having feelings, or care if I'm embarrassing the shit out of myself drunkenly. They don't try to sleep with me if I'm calling them up at 4 am because so and so is a nasty bastard who just doesn't get it. They do get it though.

I also judge the fuck out of women who are the type to denigrate other women in favour of male friends. As if they'd really be ~one of the guys~
Oh yes, you're so great because you're not like those other girls! Nah,I don't think so, step a toe out of that rigid cast you've put yourself into and you're chucked. **** that
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Old 01-25-2013, 06:55 AM   #333 (permalink)
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Oh yeah. I am a very candid person and well I've had a tumultuous life/past few years and it seems most men I befriend will try to be my ~rescuer and end up romantically interested in me and I don't like it. That's not the kind of relationship I like between friends. Women understand that when I'm complaining about how fucked up my life is, I just want to bitch, I don't want my life fixed. I do the fixing myself.

I only trust women when it comes to my truest feelings because they never judge me, call me weak for having feelings, or care if I'm embarrassing the shit out of myself drunkenly. They don't try to sleep with me if I'm calling them up at 4 am because so and so is a nasty bastard who just doesn't get it. They do get it though.

I also judge the fuck out of women who are the type to denigrate other women in favour of male friends. As if they'd really be ~one of the guys~
Oh yes, you're so great because you're not like those other girls! Nah,I don't think so, step a toe out of that rigid cast you've put yourself into and you're chucked. **** that
I'm pretty confused by this because no matter how hard I try I can NEVER pull myself away from the status of being ~one of the guys~ I don't wanna be one of the fucking guys, I would rather have sex with them. I'm just confused because you make it sound like it's a choice when I just geniunely gel better with men than I do women. I don't have much in common with women when it comes to interests so why would I hang out with them?
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Old 01-25-2013, 07:01 AM   #334 (permalink)
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I'm pretty confused by this because no matter how hard I try I can NEVER pull myself away from the status of being ~one of the guys~ I don't wanna be one of the fucking guys, I would rather have sex with them. I'm just confused because you make it sound like it's a choice when I just geniunely gel better with men than I do women. I don't have much in common with women when it comes to interests so why would I hang out with them?
I think she meant that some girls act all douchey to their girl friends when they are with guys, because some guys act mean to girls and its funny.

But when a girl who is supposed to be your friend joins in, it really hurts sometimes.

Not that I'm one of those douchey girls. Not me, no way. <<'
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^ Yep

Fanny just tell them you want to **** them then, men are pretty clueless to that sort of thing but usually react well toward that. Lol, seriously.
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Old 01-25-2013, 07:14 AM   #336 (permalink)
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^ Yep

Fanny just tell them you want to **** them then, men are pretty clueless to that sort of thing but usually react well toward that. Lol, seriously.
Totally picked you up wrong then boabz, I thought you meant girls who hang out with guys in general.


And seriously, no. lol. I'm shy . I thought men were all raging hormones and ****?
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Old 01-25-2013, 10:23 AM   #337 (permalink)
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And seriously, no. lol. I'm shy . I thought men were all raging hormones and ****?
We are. We're also hopeless idiots. Either we think that some girl who is just being nice wants to sleep with us, or we're clueless when a girl actually does.
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Old 01-25-2013, 12:05 PM   #338 (permalink)
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Fanny just tell them you want to **** them then, men are pretty clueless to that sort of thing but usually react well toward that. Lol, seriously.
THIS. Spell it out. Most guys love to service a gal, so maybe just pull your tits out and say what do ya think.
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Presumably, he doesn't want people close to him to read what he writes. A lot of fiction writers are like that because they don't want their friends/family to figure out what the writer really feels about them. Maybe this guy writes poetry that reveals secret or uncomfortable things.

Yeah that pretty much sums it up. It's poetry and some of it's pretty dark. the family just wouldn't get it. Then there would be a gazillion questions. Also, they are right-wing religious nut jobs.

He doesn't use a pseudonym, just not his full name. It would be very easy to find out a lot of info on him, but our families are in the dark ages when it comes to technology.
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Old 01-25-2013, 05:22 PM   #340 (permalink)
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I've got lots of male friends. Some of them are gay though - that just comes with working in musical theatre lol
That's awesome! I have lots of male friends too, I think our sense of humour makes us so compatible as friends.
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