That post was completely uncalled for, Urban. Nobody is trying to start a fight, and there's no need to use insults like that.

lol

I wasn't starting any fight, I was suggesting people should be careful what they post.
What's wrong with that?
And by referring to it as a shitstorm was just a way to explain to Chula I wasn't talking about his post, and you seemed to understand what I was referring to so whats the problem exactly, and where the hell did I insult someone ?

I really don't see why you're complaining.... again.

Because you keep overreacting about every little thing, and when people ask you to calm down, you claim that they're just "desperate for a fight".

Also, I really don't appreciate the end of your post. Thanks for singling me out, and the "again" is a nice touch. It's obvious I've offended you, and I don't want to start a fight in a thread, so i'm switching this discussion over to PM's. Check your in-box in a few minutes.

Ori, I can't help notice that in every thread you go in, an argument happens. Not criticising you, just observing. Maybe don't be so critical.

Nah, he definitely picked a fight for no apparent reason. It might just be my imagination, but I think he's gone after Urban most often cause he knows Urban will respond. Dude's easy to troll.

This is for Lil:

Sweetheart, you are so hard on yourself,why Ill never understand.Beauty is two parts 50% inner and 50% confidence.The inner light the burns inside of you is what outwardly makes you beautiful. Playing up your best assests is what will grab someones attention if thats what you seek.The key for me has always knowing how and when to turn it on, and being comfortable with myself as a woman,not a girl.Theres a vast difference. I grew up with two drop dead gorgeous sisters and myself was an ugly duckling.Seriously I was made to have a shaved head until I was 16.Ppl used to call me sir alot.Honestly the best thing I ever did was drop acid and get comfortable with my sexuality, and sensuality as a woman.And it wasnt until I was about 25 that I started to get the compliments that I get now.Thats because my comfort with myself is now engrained in me.I told you privately so I see no harm in repating myself,you are valuable, you are the most valuable and precious thing in this world ,we will never get another one of you. You an endargered species treat yourself like one.

Also being terminally ill sucks.Trust me:(.All the beauty in the world cant change that.

I could say the same about you. :laughing:

Yeah, I know I'm overly critical about things. But I never go into a discussion looking for a fight, and I never blatantly insult anyone. Anyway, I've started using PM's more often so that I can keep my public nuisance-ing to a minimum.

I've only ever had one other discussion with Urban that I can recall, in the thread explaining why the SYG thread was closed, and it hardly seemed like a fight. I mean, I asked Urban if I was out of line, and he said no, but I apologize if I actually did offend him back in that thread.

Hey I admit to trolling now and again. Yours just seemed so random. Like everyone else I didn't see anything Urban said to be considered overly critical.

I took issue with this post:

It could only have been directed at your post or mine, and neither deserved to be insinuated as flame-bait. You were just trying to convey that you didn't like having your private life on display while also keeping things calm, and I was just pointing out that it was hardly a "****storm". But Urban wasn't actually taking a shot at anyone, I just misinterpreted his post.

Also, I'd appreciate it if everyone just moved on. The discussion was switched to PM's for a reason; to keep this from dragging on into some public spectacle.