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Old 11-14-2014, 10:15 PM   #2161 (permalink)
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maybe we have different ideas of sheltered.
vastly different.

anyway.

I overheard some girls at work talking about the 50 Shades of Grey movie.

Shit's awkward when you know from experience that BDSM isn't always what it's cracked up to be (and it can get out of hand very quickly) and there's chicks that are like "[Main character] sounds so attractive!"

I still have somewhat of an aversion to duct tape, rope, and razorblades due to past experiences and you silly bitches are fawning over this awful garbage.
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Old 11-14-2014, 10:24 PM   #2162 (permalink)
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**** i never could understand how people get off to pain. i sort of understand wanting to get down and dirty but when you need to break out weapons during sex it really seems alien to me.
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Old 11-14-2014, 10:27 PM   #2163 (permalink)
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**** i never could understand how people get off to pain. i sort of understand wanting to get down and dirty but when you need to break out weapons during sex it really seems alien to me.
I never really liked being hurt.

Held down a little, yes. Hair pulled to a respectable extent? Yes, that's fine.

But I've been in a number of compromising situations that were just a little too much for me. Some people are freaks, man.
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Old 11-14-2014, 10:37 PM   #2164 (permalink)
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vastly different.

anyway.

I overheard some girls at work talking about the 50 Shades of Grey movie.

Shit's awkward when you know from experience that BDSM isn't always what it's cracked up to be (and it can get out of hand very quickly) and there's chicks that are like "[Main character] sounds so attractive!"

I still have somewhat of an aversion to duct tape, rope, and razorblades due to past experiences and you silly bitches are fawning over this awful garbage.
Twenty bucks says if some guy brought any of that up in bed they'd be repulsed and run screaming out of the house.
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Old 11-14-2014, 10:40 PM   #2165 (permalink)
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Twenty bucks says if some guy brought any of that up in bed they'd be repulsed and run screaming out of the house.
unless these girls are freakier than I think they are.

I have serious doubts over any woman's sanity and credibility of they romanticize the idea of sexual coercion and abuse but whatever makes the consumer zombies weak in the knees...
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Held down a little, yes. Hair pulled to a respectable extent? Yes, that's fine.
Mild mannered mini-choking?
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there's a chick at work that basically says her fantasy is staged rape. like rape in a controlled environment i guess. i was confused cause i was like what if a real rapist raped you, why not just go with it if its your fantasy but she said if its not pre-planned she'd freak out. so she wants some of the thrill of rape but not the complete package. basically the bitch wants to bowl with bumpers.
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there's a chick at work that basically says her fantasy is staged rape.
It's role playing. And it's fun.
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Mild mannered mini-choking?
been there, done that.
didn't care for it because I'm pretty sure the person I allowed that much control was a serial killer in the making.

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there's a chick at work that basically says her fantasy is staged rape. like rape in a controlled environment i guess. i was confused cause i was like what if a real rapist raped you, why not just go with it if its your fantasy but she said if its not pre-planned she'd freak out. so she wants some of the thrill of rape but not the complete package. basically the bitch wants to bowl with bumpers.
the difference between rape play and actual rape is consent.

... it doesn't make it any less creepy, though.
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i get that i just don't get why rape is a fun fantasy if you're really worried about consent.
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