should I stay or should I go? (house, member, quote)

Anarchy doll · 03-11-2005, 12:31 PM

please consider carefully the reasons before helping me out with this...this is really serious....
pro's of us together-resonably good sex
-he loves me and I love him
-he married me
-he is the responsible one in the relationship when it comes to paying bills
-lots of fun to be with

con's of us together-I was a drug addict to crack and cough syrup after I met him
-I was messed(but gave up my baby to be back with him)
-I overdosed and died on his methadone(my fault but it happened)
-he is clean now but I am REALLY afraid that he might relapse very easily
-he is obsessive compulsive collector, really bugs me cuz it is almost ridiculous the **** he keeps
-can be very childish sometimes
-is a schitzophrenic, not harmful, but it is a pain in the ass having to make sure he don't hurt himself on the times he does schitz out
-always have to remind him to take his meds
-never helps with hardly ANY housework

so anyway, I lived with the guy for 2 years, and married him, but we are seperated for a short time right now.....I wanna see what you guys think, so I can really make the right decision once I get an idea.....

View Poll Results: shoul I stay or should I go?
have no contact and move on.....	2	50.00%
work towards our goal of being together again with the baby...	2	50.00%
Voters: 4. You may not vote on this poll

03-11-2005, 12:31 PM	#1 (permalink)
Anarchy doll punk rock mommy Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: in my mind Posts: 662	should I stay or should I go? please consider carefully the reasons before helping me out with this...this is really serious.... pro's of us together-resonably good sex -he loves me and I love him -he married me -he is the responsible one in the relationship when it comes to paying bills -lots of fun to be with con's of us together-I was a drug addict to crack and cough syrup after I met him -I was messed(but gave up my baby to be back with him) -I overdosed and died on his methadone(my fault but it happened) -he is clean now but I am REALLY afraid that he might relapse very easily -he is obsessive compulsive collector, really bugs me cuz it is almost ridiculous the **** he keeps -can be very childish sometimes -is a schitzophrenic, not harmful, but it is a pain in the ass having to make sure he don't hurt himself on the times he does schitz out -always have to remind him to take his meds -never helps with hardly ANY housework so anyway, I lived with the guy for 2 years, and married him, but we are seperated for a short time right now.....I wanna see what you guys think, so I can really make the right decision once I get an idea.....