should I stay or should I go?

Anarchy doll · 03-15-2005, 09:06 PM

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Originally Posted by ArtistInTheAmbulance

Ok, not trying to piss you off now (even though it is inevitable) but if you think of a drug addiction as a selfish condition, then why do you always bring yours up? I know, I know, you're not addicted anymore, but you were, and you continually bring it up. If you've been in the same place as he has, the best thing to do is to help him get through it as you did. Not just tell him he's being selfish.

because he always says that he relapsed again, and I ask him why> he say's"oh, cuz I miss you"
that to me is selfish, and he is making me feel like if I was there all the time, that he would be clean?
I am over my addiction for me and nobody else, it is hard, and I know, but I also know that it takes commitment, and I will help him with whatever he needs, but I can't drop my life and job because he is lonely or else.....

Anarchy doll · 03-15-2005, 09:08 PM

Jibber, you can read my mind.....that is what I am mainly struggling with....I was one of those kids and look at me! I don't want that to be my kids...
and Artistin the Ambulance....if you don't like me, why do you reply to my threads?

ArtistInTheAmbulance · 03-16-2005, 12:38 AM

When did I say I dont like you? Wow I just had a flashback to Primary school... I dont even know you. I posted in here because you asked for help. I did the best I could, and you got offended when we said you should just loosen up a bit. To be honest, I dont see why I bothered.

View Poll Results: shoul I stay or should I go?
have no contact and move on.....	2	50.00%
work towards our goal of being together again with the baby...	2	50.00%
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03-16-2005, 12:38 AM	#3 (permalink)
ArtistInTheAmbulance enchanted. Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: cornwailles, angleterre. Posts: 2,528	When did I say I dont like you? Wow I just had a flashback to Primary school... I dont even know you. I posted in here because you asked for help. I did the best I could, and you got offended when we said you should just loosen up a bit. To be honest, I dont see why I bothered. __________________ shake your wings like theyre laced with sound!

03-15-2005, 09:08 PM	#2 (permalink)
Anarchy doll punk rock mommy Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: in my mind Posts: 662	Jibber, you can read my mind.....that is what I am mainly struggling with....I was one of those kids and look at me! I don't want that to be my kids... and Artistin the Ambulance....if you don't like me, why do you reply to my threads?