Zealious

Wow did you know that you're unbelievably not funny?



As for Anarchy whatever, If you're happy with him and dont feel any sort of dread then why not stay? I suggest you confront him about your problems.

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Anarchy doll

he has a drug addiction, that is really selfish condition to me, and he IS a scitzophrenic, but his doctors say it is cuz of all the acid he did when he was younger.....he was one of those types of ppl who never knew when to stop....

ArtistInTheAmbulance

Ok, not trying to piss you off now (even though it is inevitable) but if you think of a drug addiction as a selfish condition, then why do you always bring yours up? I know, I know, you're not addicted anymore, but you were, and you continually bring it up. If you've been in the same place as he has, the best thing to do is to help him get through it as you did. Not just tell him he's being selfish.

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Greg

Having been with someone who has been in a similar situation then i think i no slightly more than most. Addiction is a disease whether it's booze or crack. The question you want to ask is do you want to raise your child in that kind of enviroment. Will he or won't he go back to drugs or take his medication? It's not only about you. Can you live with that uncertainty. We know **** all about you and all your circumstances so it's difficult to give advice.

ArtistInTheAmbulance

Thats almost inviting her to tell us more about them..

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Greg

No not really. To give advice on such important decision requires knowing that person very well. just by writing on the net doesn't mean that a person can advise thats all.

jibber

He brought up a good point. Now I really have no idea what your situation is like, other than what you've decided to let us know. Having said that, the way I see it, your child's best interest should come before anyone's, including your own. You and your husband were the ones who brought that kid into the world, and being raised with a parent addicted to drugs is one of the worst situations you can put a kid through. Your kid didn't choose their lifestyle, so it's your responsibility to make his or her life the best it can possibly be, meaning not exposing him/her to something as awful as a drug addiction.

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Anarchy doll

because he always says that he relapsed again, and I ask him why> he say's"oh, cuz I miss you"
that to me is selfish, and he is making me feel like if I was there all the time, that he would be clean?
I am over my addiction for me and nobody else, it is hard, and I know, but I also know that it takes commitment, and I will help him with whatever he needs, but I can't drop my life and job because he is lonely or else.....

Anarchy doll

Jibber, you can read my mind.....that is what I am mainly struggling with....I was one of those kids and look at me! I don't want that to be my kids...
and Artistin the Ambulance....if you don't like me, why do you reply to my threads?

ArtistInTheAmbulance

When did I say I dont like you? Wow I just had a flashback to Primary school... I dont even know you. I posted in here because you asked for help. I did the best I could, and you got offended when we said you should just loosen up a bit. To be honest, I dont see why I bothered.

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