Every girl here has a pretty great sense of humor as do a lot of girls I know.
Anyway it's super pretentious babble time, I'm a believer in statistics myself and those always make it clear that there's a wide range of advantages that each sex has over each other, enough that they are equal despite all their differences.
99% of the opinions expressed in this thread including my own are influenced by our intuition and perception of our environment, rather than knowing all the statistics and facts required to provide a truly sound and objective grasp of things. Sure we can look up statistics and scientific articles that are most consistant with our point of view but that's really just confirmation bias.
And so we just go around in circles. Tore can say that guys are less pint up and have more fun because that's how he experiences things and I can say that the exact opposite is true because of how I experience things. I mean all these things, "fun", "comfort", "easy", they all mean different things to each of us because we have different ideas of what is fun and comfortable and we have our own conceptions of intelligence, as in different people learn and percieve things in different ways and so what is easy for some is difficult for others.
A less pretentious way of putting it is, it's all subjective and sh*t and there's no winner or loser in the great gender clash, just go with the facts and accept what you have, when life gives you lemons make lemonade instead of wishing you had oranges instead. Even if oranges would have been nice.
But the primary reason any heterosexual should be proud of their gender is that they have the best equipment for sexually satisfying the opposite sex. Even though I think about what it would be like to be a chick, I'm happy to be a male because I love chicks so much that they are who I am interested in sexually and I have the best equipment for the job, if I was a chick it would be more difficult and I would have less sexual options, and the same applies for heterosexual girls because they have the best equipment for satisfying males. That's not to say same sex couples don't have awesome sex I'm sure they do but I dunno, I can't grasp my mind around the concept since it's the males job to penetrate and the female's to be penetrated and so when you pair two of the same roles with each other you have to be more creative and don't get as many options.
It's simple Freud stuff, if each sex secretly has a desire to be each other that's why they compliment each other so perfectly since sex kinda symbolizes union of sorts, if we were the gender that we sexually desired we wouldn't be able to make that kind of union as biology intended.
I hope Adidasss doesn't get too offended by that, it's not a knock on homosexuals just some of my opinions on what it means to be hetero. I even admit that when I was younger and my sexual feelings were very new I did experiment with the concept of homosexuality (because I was very depressed at that stage in life and taking my fustrations over my lack of a romantic life out on girls) but in the end it didn't click with me, it felt like I was forcing myself to be gay just so I could be a rebel, back then I tried to fit in with other guys but once I realised that wasn't what I really wanted, dudes have become increasingly less attractive to me.
Once I got to socialize with people better especially women, my gender confusion was resolved and I've accepted that being attracted to women is not something I should try to unlearn just because I have no success with women and I've come to realise that the real reason I never had a girlfriend is because I'm too introverted and don't approach people, I just selfishly expect them to make the first move and this is something I'm still trying to improve on but since I've come to realise these things, my opinions of women have grown more positive.
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