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Old 07-06-2010, 02:18 PM   #271 (permalink)
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I agree with most of you here, and feel quite lucky to be a woman and have many of these attributes But why do women not have to worry about having a successful career?
Sorry for being so late in addressing this.

Don't mean to say women don't have to work but, well they don't have as much pressure to be successful at something so if their goal isn't to make a lot of money and get a lot of ass to be happy it's easier for them to live life at home. Raising kids and what not if that's what they want to do. I think today women are admired weither they are the stay at home variety or the career type. But stay at home dads are still considered pussy men by the alpha bros of male society.


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Apart from childbirth of course... lol. And pregnancy, carrying around children (children are heavy!)...
Still you get a nice reward for your troubles.

When it comes to chores at home it's usually equal for both sexes. But I'm telling you, having a d*ck just means that way more often people are gonna ask you to do sh*t that you don't want to do. For some reason people assume that because I have a penis I can do anything, like hey bra can you help me out and carry this giant f*cking mattress and this big screen tv and chestedrawer all the way out to the back k thx. It doesn't matter that I'm weak as sh*t I always get dragged into things like I'm the brawny man and I'm not a f*cking brawny man but I'm expected to be one because I have a d*ck.

Women can make plans easier because they get less distractions like this and they get to relax more if they choose that option, not that they have to. But I'm telling you I'd rather do house chores than move sh*t around all the time and from my experience women never have to do that if they dont want but if you're a guy it's just too f*cking bad.

Granted a lot of guys don't have a problem with this like I do, I'm just one of the pussies but when you are a pussy the pressure to be macho is just that much more fustrating.
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Old 07-06-2010, 02:50 PM   #272 (permalink)
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But it's not even as nice as "wow you have nice boobs." It's more like "I want to fuck you and you have no choice in the matter." I guess on some level it could be considered a compliment but most of the time being treated as a piece of meat or a mere sexual object isn't pleasant. It's often hard for guys to understand this but when women are constantly objectified in many situations for their whole life, and when women are trying to break free of this sexual objectification and be seen as a person, it's not something that you want to hear reinforced.

When I get whistled at I never ever feel complimented or proud of my body. I always feel awkward and embarrassed, and afraid that they're going to come up to me and try something.

It's also scary because a lot of rape scenarios often begin with guys whistling or yelling out things that imply the woman is a piece of meat. And rape is still a pressing issue if you are a woman, more so than if you are a man. So it's not something as a girl you want to hear.

EDIT: Like NND said, it makes you feel vulnerable...
When you put it into that perspective I understand your point of view a lot more clearly.

But again, it's another thing that's true for both sexes, women can treat men like pieces of meat too, granted these women don't have as much control over the media and if you're a man you don't have to worry so much about getting raped.

That's certainly one plus to being a dude I can't deny.

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Weird. Usually boys know who are the girl "players". As usually those girls are somehow considered "one of the boys".
Do you mean guys treat them as if they were guys or that they're unfairly considered dykes? Or both?
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Old 07-06-2010, 03:01 PM   #273 (permalink)
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When it comes to chores at home it's usually equal for both sexes.
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But if thats the way it is for your household personally, then yay@progress or whatever.

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But I'm telling you, having a d*ck just means that way more often people are gonna ask you to do sh*t that you don't want to do. For some reason people assume that because I have a penis I can do anything, like hey bra can you help me out and carry this giant fa*lalalalalalaaaaaaaah.
Okay, no joke, this sounds like it sucks majorly. Thinking of myself as a guy around the same size I am now being asked to lift things that weigh 1.5 times my weight would be the worst.
I can only speak from personal experience but I get ushered into doing stereotypically feminine stupid stuff. Like, I have to spend a lot of time with my horrible grandmother and hear her tell me that I should stop wearing so much eyeliner or people will think I'm a prostitute while my brother only has to deal with her maybe twice a month. On the down side, my weekend is usually half over by the time I'm done with her but on the up side, I can still feel my arms.
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AW HELL NAW

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But if thats the way it is for your household personally, then yay@progress or whatever.
Well I'd like to know what kinda chores were included in that study. I'm not just talking about house chores like cleaning, cooking and so on. I'm talking about taking out the trash, yardwork, cleaning the gutters, shoveling snow, assembling furnature, moving furnature, repairing sh*t, electrical work, wood work, plumbing, pest control, washing the car, fixing the car, getting sh*t out of the attic, roof repair. In general guys tend to get the more physically demanding and dangerous chores.


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Okay, no joke, this sounds like it sucks majorly. Thinking of myself as a guy around the same size I am now being asked to lift things that weigh 1.5 times my weight would be the worst.
I can only speak from personal experience but I get ushered into doing stereotypically feminine stupid stuff. Like, I have to spend a lot of time with my horrible grandmother and hear her tell me that I should stop wearing so much eyeliner or people will think I'm a prostitute while my brother only has to deal with her maybe twice a month. On the down side, my weekend is usually half over by the time I'm done with her but on the up side, I can still feel my arms.
Pfffffffft. Spending a little time with your grandma ain't that bad. I've lived with mine my whole life now beat that.
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Pfffffffft. Spending a little time with your grandma ain't that bad. I've lived with mine my whole life now beat that.
Well, she's untreated borderline personality disorder and in general just terrible and difficult. I have a regular grandma who I love and I'm sure yours is nice but this is a really boring conversation.....
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Well everybody has terrible family members to deal with no matter what sex they are, that much I can tell you.

Sorry for being boring.
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Well everybody has terrible family members to deal with no matter what sex they are, that much I can tell you.

Sorry for being boring.
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It's way too f*cking distracting.

My sex drive is way too intense for someone who never has sex and whenever I get a boner in the middle of something (which can be whenever, wherever) my focus is completely out of whack until I solve the problem. You'd be surprised by how often sex is on a guy's mind for a good portion of his time.
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