Why Are Women So Attracted To Musicians?

derek · 07-03-2010, 01:56 PM

Women being attracted to fame and wealth is the key here. They can be famous entertainers or athletes or whatever. The key is fame and wealth which attracts women. Sad to say, but true.

mr dave · 07-04-2010, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by derek

Women being attracted to fame and wealth is the key here. They can be famous entertainers or athletes or whatever. The key is fame and wealth which attracts women. Sad to say, but true.

yeah... because there aren't plenty of men out there who care little about anything besides objects and materials...

TheCunningStunt · 07-04-2010, 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by derek

Women being attracted to fame and wealth is the key here. They can be famous entertainers or athletes or whatever. The key is fame and wealth which attracts women. Sad to say, but true.

Fame? Even though women are attracted to struggling musicians more so than musicians that earn a lot of money. They're attracted to the sensitive side of a male, a male that writes melodies and poetry/lyrics.

~~Farfisa~~ · 07-04-2010, 04:15 PM

Why can't women be attracted to crazy, creative musicians? It's always being sensitive and writing cheesy love songs... bahahaha.

gighive · 07-04-2010, 09:44 PM

Wrong. Money and Fame have nothing to do with it. Musicians, bikers, badboys,pimps and guys that don't give a "f" usually play by a different set of rules. Learn the rules and you will have more fun playing the game.

glastonelle · 07-04-2010, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by derek

Women being attracted to fame and wealth is the key here. They can be famous entertainers or athletes or whatever. The key is fame and wealth which attracts women. Sad to say, but true.

Not all women want fame and wealth, and if they do, they want it for themselves, not necessarily for their partner.

I'm a girl and the last thing I care about is wheather or not my boyfriend is famous. Sure, musicians have a sort of appeal to them because they are respected (well, the good ones anyway) and people want to listen to what they have to say. Plus, theres the stereotype of the introspective, tortured kind of genius which in a way every girl kind of wants. For me, the less famous they are the more attractive I find them.

IWP · 07-05-2010, 12:25 AM

Musicians generally have money and are popular, and we know how materialistic most girls are.

Astronomer · 07-05-2010, 12:43 AM

It's not about money because all the musicians I know are poor. Even semi-successful ones.

I always thought chicks were attracted to musicians because they were sensitive and could express their emotions... via music. Or some crap.

Freebase Dali · 07-05-2010, 01:18 AM

The way I see it, people are generally attracted to talent. In natural-selection terms, talent is an advantage where the lack of talent is not. A talented musician, or a talented artist, or person of any trade is a more viable mate than someone without that talent. It speaks to success and security and an ability to support.
That would be a basic, innate desire and attraction... that a mate be good at something. It's only logic that it makes more sense than simply going for an attractive physique that had no capability of supporting offspring.

But where musicians come into play, and while I think talent would be an underlying force in the attractiveness, I think it's important to keep in mind the media overlay that has been superimposed on musicians since the beginning of the whole thing. Musicians are often chosen for their physical appeal, extensively dramatized and made into icons in order to sell the music to a larger audience. This has been happening for a long time and is part of our culture and ingrained in us as developed humans.

I personally think that the main reason that PEOPLE are so attracted to musicians is mostly because we've been conditioned for it. Had musicians remained a bunch of drum-beating natives with no edited videos and purely the sound of the music, I don't think we'd have quite the same reaction we have today.

MAStudent · 07-10-2010, 01:01 AM

I'm going to go back to the irresponsibility thing

I thing women are attracted to musicians because they know we'll bust it in their mouth, instead of going, "Oh hey, Hi, I hope you're happy. Do you think I could, maybe, if you want, if you don't mind, let me bust it in your mouth?"

so to reduce:

irreponsible
don't waste time being too nice
----------------------------------
bust it in their mouth

I think I'm going to write a self help book

07-05-2010, 12:25 AM	#117 (permalink)
IWP A S T H E T I C Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Philadelphia, PA Posts: 532	Musicians generally have money and are popular, and we know how materialistic most girls are. __________________ insert witty remark here

07-05-2010, 12:43 AM	#118 (permalink)
Astronomer we are stardust Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 2,894	It's not about money because all the musicians I know are poor. Even semi-successful ones. I always thought chicks were attracted to musicians because they were sensitive and could express their emotions... via music. Or some crap. __________________

07-03-2010, 01:56 PM	#111 (permalink)
derek Music Addict Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 778	Women being attracted to fame and wealth is the key here. They can be famous entertainers or athletes or whatever. The key is fame and wealth which attracts women. Sad to say, but true.

07-04-2010, 04:15 PM	#114 (permalink)
~~Farfisa~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 2,773	Why can't women be attracted to crazy, creative musicians? It's always being sensitive and writing cheesy love songs... bahahaha.

07-04-2010, 09:44 PM	#115 (permalink)
gighive Groupie Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 0	Wrong. Money and Fame have nothing to do with it. Musicians, bikers, badboys,pimps and guys that don't give a "f" usually play by a different set of rules. Learn the rules and you will have more fun playing the game.

07-05-2010, 01:18 AM	#119 (permalink)
Freebase Dali Partying on the inside Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 5,584	The way I see it, people are generally attracted to talent. In natural-selection terms, talent is an advantage where the lack of talent is not. A talented musician, or a talented artist, or person of any trade is a more viable mate than someone without that talent. It speaks to success and security and an ability to support. That would be a basic, innate desire and attraction... that a mate be good at something. It's only logic that it makes more sense than simply going for an attractive physique that had no capability of supporting offspring. But where musicians come into play, and while I think talent would be an underlying force in the attractiveness, I think it's important to keep in mind the media overlay that has been superimposed on musicians since the beginning of the whole thing. Musicians are often chosen for their physical appeal, extensively dramatized and made into icons in order to sell the music to a larger audience. This has been happening for a long time and is part of our culture and ingrained in us as developed humans. I personally think that the main reason that PEOPLE are so attracted to musicians is mostly because we've been conditioned for it. Had musicians remained a bunch of drum-beating natives with no edited videos and purely the sound of the music, I don't think we'd have quite the same reaction we have today.

07-10-2010, 01:01 AM	#120 (permalink)
MAStudent Music Addict Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Eureka, CA Posts: 87	I'm going to go back to the irresponsibility thing I thing women are attracted to musicians because they know we'll bust it in their mouth, instead of going, "Oh hey, Hi, I hope you're happy. Do you think I could, maybe, if you want, if you don't mind, let me bust it in your mouth?" so to reduce: irreponsible don't waste time being too nice ---------------------------------- bust it in their mouth I think I'm going to write a self help book