Dear MB Men and Women...

Mojo · 02-07-2010, 06:22 AM

Maybe those 2 guys were just out for sex and you werent. Women are often out just for sex too and if they cant get it from someone, they move on to someone else but in my experience theres no question of respect or disrespect when it's this way round.

Alot of times i see women giving off major signals to guys in clubs and bars and then when the guy tries to pursue her for sex, she complains about how they arent paying her any respect.

It doesnt mean that all guys are disrespectful to women. Not all guys are just out for sex.

EDIT: Im not saying any of the above actually apply to you, just my thoughts.

lucifer_sam · 02-07-2010, 07:17 AM

Don't be mistaken, at all times every man on this fair earth is looking for sex. However much shit he's willing to put up with along the way is up to him.

It seems like you just found two with an extraordinarily low tolerance for it.

TheBig3 · 02-07-2010, 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

Why are guys so disrespectful to women these days? The last two guys I've met who've been interested in me, turn out days later suggesting we have sex. Nothihng else. No getting to know each other first, no giving it a week, and NO regarding me as a person rather than a piece of meat with a vagina. Am I old fashioned? Do you think values are useless to have? Because I was brought up to respect myself. I am no way perfect, but this situation I keep getting into is ridicolous!

Whats disrespectful about having sex?

P A N · 02-07-2010, 10:15 AM

it seems to me that everybody just needs to get laid...

Inuzuka Skysword · 02-07-2010, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

Why are guys so disrespectful to women these days? The last two guys I've met who've been interested in me, turn out days later suggesting we have sex. Nothihng else. No getting to know each other first, no giving it a week, and NO regarding me as a person rather than a piece of meat with a vagina. Am I old fashioned? Do you think values are useless to have? Because I was brought up to respect myself. I am no way perfect, but this situation I keep getting into is ridicolous!

At least they asked.

Arya Stark · 02-07-2010, 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

Why are guys so disrespectful to women these days? The last two guys I've met who've been interested in me, turn out days later suggesting we have sex. Nothihng else. No getting to know each other first, no giving it a week, and NO regarding me as a person rather than a piece of meat with a vagina. Am I old fashioned? Do you think values are useless to have? Because I was brought up to respect myself. I am no way perfect, but this situation I keep getting into is ridicolous!

I know what you mean, my dad talks about it all of the time.
He says when he was younger, he would never imagine treating women the way guys treat them now.

Edit: Some guys, not every one.

**Janszoon** · 02-07-2010, 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

Why are guys so disrespectful to women these days?

So am I to assume you view as the height of respect for women the days when a woman's place was in the kitchen and sexual harassment was just a normal part of the work environment?

TheBig3 · 02-07-2010, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Janszoon

So am I to assume you view as the height of respect for women the days when a woman's place was in the kitchen and sexual harassment was just a normal part of the work environment?

Jans throwin' heymakers.

Yeah I don't know if wanting sex is disrespectful. At least they were as forthcoming as society would allow about it.

P A N · 02-07-2010, 01:02 PM

i agree with big3. i think if men and women were not as forthcoming as they are about it these days we would all be lying to each other a lot more. if everyone just accepted the idea that casual sex is something that many many people do, then we wouldn't find it offensive when someone else is particularly interested in experiencing some naked time with us... cuz really, it's kind of a compliment.

i think getting straight to the point about one's agenda is honest and civilized. mind you, i also believe there are civilized and uncivilized ways of going about expressing those agendas.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 02-07-2010, 01:20 PM

SOME GUYZ, SOME GIRLS ARE ONLY abouuttt that thing that thing that thiiiingggg!!!

I find that,what I really don't like is a handful of males think it means I want to **** them if I'm nice to them. I'm too socially retarded to flirt. Thankfully, this is by no means all. Also, I do enjoy chivalry, but not so much as I enjoy MANNERS FROM BOTH SIDES MOTHER****ER

02-07-2010, 06:22 AM	#1 (permalink)
Mojo Melancholia Eternally Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: England Posts: 5,018	Maybe those 2 guys were just out for sex and you werent. Women are often out just for sex too and if they cant get it from someone, they move on to someone else but in my experience theres no question of respect or disrespect when it's this way round. Alot of times i see women giving off major signals to guys in clubs and bars and then when the guy tries to pursue her for sex, she complains about how they arent paying her any respect. It doesnt mean that all guys are disrespectful to women. Not all guys are just out for sex. EDIT: Im not saying any of the above actually apply to you, just my thoughts. __________________ Last.FM \| Echoes and Dust

02-07-2010, 07:17 AM	#2 (permalink)
lucifer_sam Unrepentant Ass-Mod Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 3,921	Don't be mistaken, at all times every man on this fair earth is looking for sex. However much shit he's willing to put up with along the way is up to him. It seems like you just found two with an extraordinarily low tolerance for it. __________________ first.am

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02-07-2010, 10:15 AM	#4 (permalink)
P A N DO LIKE YOU. Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 629	it seems to me that everybody just needs to get laid...

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P A N DO LIKE YOU. Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 629	i agree with big3. i think if men and women were not as forthcoming as they are about it these days we would all be lying to each other a lot more. if everyone just accepted the idea that casual sex is something that many many people do, then we wouldn't find it offensive when someone else is particularly interested in experiencing some naked time with us... cuz really, it's kind of a compliment. i think getting straight to the point about one's agenda is honest and civilized. mind you, i also believe there are civilized and uncivilized ways of going about expressing those agendas.

02-07-2010, 01:20 PM	#10 (permalink)
~~Sansa Stark~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: The Eyrie, Vale of Arryn, Westeros Posts: 3,234	SOME GUYZ, SOME GIRLS ARE ONLY abouuttt that thing that thing that thiiiingggg!!! I find that,what I really don't like is a handful of males think it means I want to ** them if I'm nice to them. I'm too socially retarded to flirt. Thankfully, this is by no means all. Also, I do enjoy chivalry, but not so much as I enjoy MANNERS FROM BOTH SIDES MOTHER**ER