Love

jayfin3 · 01-09-2010, 11:36 AM

Have you ever been in love? Did you get over it? Do you believe in love?

Thrice · 01-09-2010, 12:17 PM

after love after love after love.

Freebase Dali · 01-09-2010, 01:03 PM

I can feeeel somethin' inside me say...

jayfin3 · 01-09-2010, 02:05 PM

I was actually lookin for serious answers but whatever dudes.

LoathsomePete · 01-09-2010, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by jayfin3

I was actually lookin for serious answers but whatever dudes.

If you're looking for serious answers then perhaps you should put more thought into your initial post. If you offer some insight and first explain what you believe on the subject then usually it will rub off on your responses when people see that you're actually being serious.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 01-09-2010, 02:23 PM

hahaha

I'll give you a serious answer

Yes, I believe in love. Actual love though, I have only recently learned the difference, as in what love really is, rather than the lust, infatuation, or obsession we often mistake as being love. While I do think attraction is obviously important, love is something you have to work at, and sometimes it's hard and nervewracking and you have to make compromises you don't like but when you have it, and give it, to someone who gives it back to you and you are equals in that, then it is the best thing in the world. I've also had a lot of men who've claimed to love me, and it's the same story, obsession, infatuation, lust. To have someone love you for you, rather than making you into an idea, when they are seeing you as a real person,it's awesome.

ha

jayfin3 · 01-09-2010, 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Paloma

hahaha

I'll give you a serious answer

Yes, I believe in love. Actual love though, I have only recently learned the difference, as in what love really is, rather than the lust, infatuation, or obsession we often mistake as being love. While I do think attraction is obviously important, love is something you have to work at, and sometimes it's hard and nervewracking and you have to make compromises you don't like but when you have it, and give it, to someone who gives it back to you and you are equals in that, then it is the best thing in the world. I've also had a lot of men who've claimed to love me, and it's the same story, obsession, infatuation, lust. To have someone love you for you, rather than making you into an idea, when they are seeing you as a real person,it's awesome.

ha

So from this, does that mean you don't believe in unrequited love? I believe you're saying that love is when two people feel the same feeling for each other? So you cannot have one-sided love?

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Originally Posted by LoathsomePete

If you're looking for serious answers then perhaps you should put more thought into your initial post. If you offer some insight and first explain what you believe on the subject then usually it will rub off on your responses when people see that you're actually being serious.

**** off. Don't be an arrogant prick.

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Originally Posted by Neapolitan

When you said "Did you get over it?" do you mean 1. how long does it take after you've been dumped because your heart hurts?

Basically this, I guess. I ****ing love this video too man, thanks for it.

Barnard17 · 01-09-2010, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by jayfin3

**** off. Don't be an arrogant prick.

"And in the end, the love you get is equal to the love you give,"

Neapolitan · 01-09-2010, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Barnard17

"And in the end, the love you get is equal to the love you give,"

Everybody's born knowing all the Beatles lyrics instinctively. They're passed into the fetus subconsciously along with all the amniotic stuff. Fact, they should be called "The Fetals".

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 01-09-2010, 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by jayfin3

So from this, does that mean you don't believe in unrequited love? I believe you're saying that love is when two people feel the same feeling for each other? So you cannot have one-sided love?

I do believe I included the word "obsession" to cover what is often mistaken as love, dear.

01-09-2010, 11:36 AM	#1 (permalink)
jayfin3 Music Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 129	Love Have you ever been in love? Did you get over it? Do you believe in love?

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Thrice أمهاتك[وهور]Aura Euphoria Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Florida/Buffalo/CT Posts: 2,357	after love after love after love. __________________ Lew Harrison, who looked like an anarchist with his red eyes and fierce black beard, had been writing furiously in one corner of the room. "That's good—happiness by the kilowatt," he said. "Buy your happiness the way you buy light."

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Freebase Dali Partying on the inside Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 5,584	I can feeeel somethin' inside me say... __________________

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jayfin3 Music Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 129	I was actually lookin for serious answers but whatever dudes.

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~~Sansa Stark~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: The Eyrie, Vale of Arryn, Westeros Posts: 3,234	hahaha I'll give you a serious answer Yes, I believe in love. Actual love though, I have only recently learned the difference, as in what love really is, rather than the lust, infatuation, or obsession we often mistake as being love. While I do think attraction is obviously important, love is something you have to work at, and sometimes it's hard and nervewracking and you have to make compromises you don't like but when you have it, and give it, to someone who gives it back to you and you are equals in that, then it is the best thing in the world. I've also had a lot of men who've claimed to love me, and it's the same story, obsession, infatuation, lust. To have someone love you for you, rather than making you into an idea, when they are seeing you as a real person,it's awesome. ha