Love

~~Farfisa~~ · 01-17-2010, 03:55 PM

"Mer, mer, my boyfriend left me after two years of dating, mer, mer,mer."

NumberNineDream · 01-17-2010, 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

My only advice to you is, don't get too close with someone who's broken up from a longterm relationship and misses their ex. I nearly got into that situation, but very cautiously kept out of it.

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Don't be friends with them. They tend to act like highschool girls trying to make their ex jealous, or to just draw his attention. Pathetic phase.

VEGANGELICA · 01-18-2010, 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by VEGANGELICA

My vote for the most fucked-up permutation of those four letters of the English language is "evol."

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Originally Posted by Dr.Seussicide

Maybe the reverse of it is what you were going for?

Oh, I really did intend to say the permutation "evol" because it sounds like "evil"...and sometimes attempts at love feel like that.

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Originally Posted by tore

I like "vole".

My, that is a cute little fellow! "Vole" was my second choice.

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Originally Posted by littleknowitall

Wow, I'm surprised you read what I wrote. Thanks for the advice by the way, made a lot of sense. I think the first thing I realized is basically that I'm a people pleaser of the worst kind in which I was willing to put anyone and everyone before me as usual and people can exploit that unfortunately and she just got comfortable doing it. Which is awful but I'm better for it now.

I have a very good attention span, littleknowitall, plus your story was troubling and honest--I appreciated you sharing it! I "inherited" some people-pleasing behaviors from my mom, I think, and it took me years to acknowledge that my needs and desires were at least as important as those of a person with whom I was involved.

I put up with many things when I was new to relationships that I would never put up with now. For example, I hate saliva and a boyfriend knew that, but once during kissing he spit into my mouth. I was upset because I knew he did it maliciously. Eventually we became engaged and were together for 2 years before we broke it off. I could have saved myself a lot of future sadness if I'd gone with my gut feeling that "if someone spits in your mouth, knowing you won't like it, get the hell outa there." Sadly, sometimes the way one learns lessons like this is by experiencing them.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 01-19-2010, 06:29 AM

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Originally Posted by VEGANGELICA

Eventually we became engaged and were together for 2 years before we broke it off. I could have saved myself a lot of future sadness if I'd gone with my gut feeling that "if someone spits in your mouth, knowing you won't like it, get the hell outa there." Sadly, sometimes the way one learns lessons like this is by experiencing them.

LOL this but replace "spit in my mouth" with "coming on my titties" and we have a winner..

Tbf I think I was on too many drugs to know if I actually liked this dude or not. He was WAY overbearing, and I rarely remember him calling me "Dayna", it was always "baby" this or "baby that"

Edit: I am way too high, I just noticed I said titties unironically

Gio · 01-19-2010, 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Freebase Dali

I was hoping someone would help us finish the Cher song.

"If I could turn back time!"

Astronomer · 05-05-2010, 03:00 AM

I have a question for anyone good at decoding song lyrics or soppy poems that people choose to express themselves in. This is kinda lame, but a guy who I know quite well (we are not involved nor have we ever been involved) posted these song lyrics to me online today:

.......I'd be the luckiest man in the universe, if cause and effect didn't get there first, but she (she being you kate) keeps looking for patterns, and the world just happens.....

He added in the "she being you kate" part (my name is Kate.) What does this even mean?! I want to know!

Cheese · 05-05-2010, 03:41 AM

Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes...just be an illusion.

Mojo · 05-05-2010, 07:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Lateralus

.......I'd be the luckiest man in the universe, if cause and effect didn't get there first, but she (she being you kate) keeps looking for patterns, and the world just happens.....

He added in the "she being you kate" part (my name is Kate.) What does this even mean?! I want to know!

I can honestly say I have absolutely no idea. Those lyrics don't seem to be about anything specific. Did you ask him about it?

Astronomer · 05-05-2010, 07:07 AM

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Originally Posted by mojopinuk

I can honestly say I have absolutely no idea. Those lyrics don't seem to be about anything specific. Did you ask him about it?

Yeah I texted him and said 'explain your cryptic lyric posting' but he hasn't replied. Whenever he's tried to tell me something important he always does it obscurely... Coincidentally the band who wrote those lyrics are called Something for Kate. Who knows.

Mojo · 05-05-2010, 07:13 AM

It's a weird one. If he reads something into those lyrics, and thinks theres a solid message in there then it's way over my head. I think it would maybe make a little more sense if you had a boyfriend, but you're single now arent you? So i cant even see it that way.

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