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afrocentric
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: texas
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i've recently faced, and have been forced to face some of my past transgressions
its been a pretty rough look in the mirror, and while i'm not ready to completely get into what is going on,....but i didnt kill anyone,....i have hurt some people, i have done some very self destructive things, i've been untrustworthy and its hard i feel selfish crying over it,...crying over things i've done and how they've effected me i feel selfish that its is later, rather than sooner, i worry about the effect i have had on other people my question to you is,.... once a bad person, always a bad person?
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i changed my mind; i changed my mind;now i'm feeling different all that time, wasted i wish i was a little more delicate i wish my i wish my i wish my i wish my i wish my name was clementine - sarah jaffe |
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"Hermione-Lite"
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: New York.
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I think once you can take responsibility for it, you can take control of it.
You may not have been good before, but if you want to change it, you can. |
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Bigger and Better
Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Texas girl living in the UK
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I wish I could offer some fantastically wonderful advice, but I really can't, as I'm kinda going through the same thing right now. I almost broke down in the vitamin aisle at the grocery the other day, looking at the centrum and thinking about something stupid I said to my husband.
but anyway, the one thing I can say is that no one has to be a bad person. and just because you did bad things in the past doesn't mean you were ever a bad person. it just means you're imperfect like the rest of us.
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carpe musicam
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Les Barricades Mystérieuses
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"It's not where you come from but where you are going." Everyone has a selfish past and when they grow as a person they become less selfish and more wise. Don't judge yourself for crying, that is part of the healing process. So you should not consider yourself a bad person.
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afrocentric
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: texas
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thanks guys,...
and thank you wifey i've calmed down a bit now thank gawd i live in a town with lots of short bridges, with my luck i would just mame myself and then i would be depressed AND disfigured
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i changed my mind; i changed my mind;now i'm feeling different all that time, wasted i wish i was a little more delicate i wish my i wish my i wish my i wish my i wish my name was clementine - sarah jaffe |
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killedmyraindog
Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: Boston, Massachusetts
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I generally think Dali posts drunk. But this time I'd agree with him. Though I'd advocate for everyone to live in a big city.
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afrocentric
Join Date: Jan 2008
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thank you alex
sorry i freaked out everyone i'll be normal in a day or two and no, i aint movein to NYC
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i changed my mind; i changed my mind;now i'm feeling different all that time, wasted i wish i was a little more delicate i wish my i wish my i wish my i wish my i wish my name was clementine - sarah jaffe |
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