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Old 12-12-2009, 09:20 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default its not like i killed someone,...but

i've recently faced, and have been forced to face some of my past transgressions

its been a pretty rough look in the mirror, and while i'm not ready to completely get into what is going on,....but i didnt kill anyone,....i have hurt some people, i have done some very self destructive things, i've been untrustworthy

and its hard
i feel selfish crying over it,...crying over things i've done and how they've effected me
i feel selfish that its is later, rather than sooner, i worry about the effect i have had on other people

my question to you is,....

once a bad person, always a bad person?
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Old 12-12-2009, 09:37 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I think once you can take responsibility for it, you can take control of it.
You may not have been good before, but if you want to change it, you can.
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Old 12-12-2009, 09:43 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I wish I could offer some fantastically wonderful advice, but I really can't, as I'm kinda going through the same thing right now. I almost broke down in the vitamin aisle at the grocery the other day, looking at the centrum and thinking about something stupid I said to my husband.

but anyway, the one thing I can say is that no one has to be a bad person. and just because you did bad things in the past doesn't mean you were ever a bad person. it just means you're imperfect like the rest of us.
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Old 12-12-2009, 09:46 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Old 12-12-2009, 10:17 PM   #5 (permalink)
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i feel selfish crying over it,...crying over things i've done and how they've effected me
i feel selfish that its is later, rather than sooner, i worry about the effect i have had on other people

my question to you is,....

once a bad person, always a bad person?
"It's not where you come from but where you are going." Everyone has a selfish past and when they grow as a person they become less selfish and more wise. Don't judge yourself for crying, that is part of the healing process. So you should not consider yourself a bad person.
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Old 12-12-2009, 11:01 PM   #6 (permalink)
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thanks guys,...
and thank you wifey

i've calmed down a bit now
thank gawd i live in a town with lots of short bridges, with my luck i would just mame myself
and then i would be depressed AND disfigured
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Old 12-13-2009, 12:46 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Goddamn, woman... Move to New York or something.
This southern life you're black holing is doing you more harm than good.
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Goddamn, woman... Move to New York or something.
This southern life you're black holing is doing you more harm than good.
I generally think Dali posts drunk. But this time I'd agree with him. Though I'd advocate for everyone to live in a big city.
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Old 12-13-2009, 10:16 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Old 12-13-2009, 10:18 AM   #10 (permalink)
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thank you alex


sorry i freaked out everyone
i'll be normal in a day or two

and no, i aint movein to NYC
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