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Originally Posted by djchameleon
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I get how that can be annoying but confidence is pretty hard to learn for some guys. It's almost just like how it's pretty hard for some women to get over their self esteem issues.
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I know what you mean. I think perhaps I didn't express my thoughts clearly. I didn't mean to imply that he must exude this 'uber confident' attitude. Complete and utter confidence can even be off putting depending on how he expresses himself, lol (you know, to the point of being c**ky).
I understand confidence doesn't always come easy. And that's fine. I really just meant not exuding constant insecurity, if that makes sense. Most guys are perfectly fine in this regard, I think. :)
Also, yes...I don't think I have a single girl friend who doesn't have some sort of issue they worry about, at least on occasion. Myself included.
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Originally Posted by djchameleon
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Actually, it's that's not all true. The jerks/douches can fake that pretty well and that's how they get certain girls. Well they are witty across the board but the fake the kindness and being considerate part enough to get by and once they have had the girl or are in a relationship then they show their true colors. The girl then decides to stay with the guy because of her falling in love with the image that he used to portray when they first met and she feels like he can be that person again but he can't really because his true colors can't be changed.
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LOL. Yeah, I know some guys (and girls) can be totally fake. I was speaking on the assumption that the guy I'd be dating wouldn't be a jerk who was faking kindness and charm, lol. So I amend my previous statement; I would never KNOWINGLY date a jerk, lol :)
And yeah, I understand the whole falling in love and thinking they'll change/rationalizing. I've done volunteer work at a women's shelter before, and have heard quite a few sad stories about women holding on, waiting and hoping for change. :(
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Originally Posted by djchameleon
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that's rare, they usually go hand in hand.
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Ha ha. I think my definition/idea of badass might not equate with the norm. Perhaps my idea of badass is more what regular folks would consider semi-badass, lol. When I think badass, I imagine someone like Jack Bauer (24) or Mike Scofield (Prison Break), hahahaha; Just a cool, tough guy that gets sh*t done. Or maybe just a 'manly' man. I dunno....lol. Whatev... :)
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Originally Posted by djchameleon
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omfg! no she DIDN'T! After reading that list I would rip it up in her face and blow the torn pieces at her. What a sad little beta male. it's a shame.
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Yeah, she did. It's a damn shame. Even his other guy friends agree, so it's not just me, haha. I was talking to two of them the other day (they're both going to be in his wedding) and they told me they think he is making a huge mistake; Both shaking their heads, telling me they they hate her, lol. And he's really a good guy too, which sucks. He's actually in the air force and deployed right now; maybe he will change his mind by the time October rolls around, lol :D I doubt it....lol....but what can you do :/
