chill out peoples

I agree with tons of people here. It's good to remember that she must be going through something really, really awful right now. My girlfriend's taken two pregnancy tests over the course of our relationship, and I don't know what the fukking hel! I would do if they turned out positive. That would be incredibly difficult.

Also, you should be glad she left you, honestly man. She cheated on you, for one. She cheated on you AND got pregnant with someone else's baby, for two. That's enough to justify a divorce in my opinion, let alone an eight month relationship. Stop being so dependant on this girl.

Third, it's good to remember that your just infatuated and overwhelmed with connectedness and feelings. It doesn't seem to be much more, either, because (IMO) when your really in "love" with someone, there is a lot of work that goes into making that love. That work is the thing that is the fundamentals of all the trust, acceptance, communication, and tons of other things. Without the work and effectively getting through hard times, there is none of those things. If eight months into a relationship she lied, cheated, and dumped you without explaining much, you were seriously lacking in the communication, trust, empathy, etc.

What I'm saying is this: The hurting is a product of emotion, not a good relationship being torn from you. Eventually that emotion will fade, but in the mean time, you haven't really lost anything worth losing. In fact, your actually saved from being emotionally dependant on not breaking-up with a girl that your relationship with is just based on strong feelings. Then being forced to deal with her cheating and having baby's behind your back for years to come- and then, of course, one day realizing how much time you just pissed away.

Sorry to be blunt, feel better soon man.

O im not saying i want her back im saying i wish i would have found out a diffrent way ya know... not "im pregnant i cant talk to you peace" ya know

Yeah, Cory will be fine.

She, however, will have to contend with having a child, probably Nick's.

And I have to deal with the disappointment of not chasing a pregnant woman around with a rocket launcher.





fuck

I'm so heated right now you don't even know

use a condom...


and act your friggin age

I know, I know, but again she's worse off than you are. She's pregnant. I know you hate her right now but let her deal with that, and after the abortion (and if you're still pissed at her) then confront her.

You should go out with some friends and watch a movie or something. Or just jerk off... a lot.

Read posts and how am i not acting my age mister "i wanna be a **** head today"

Your a really odd person...but i like ya...lolz

yeah the girl I've been crazy about lately slept with her ex-boyfriend yesterday, good times. High school is just ripe with poor decision making.

:laughing:

I think she's pregnant with the other guy's kid.




Best of luck with your situation cory. She'll be out of your life and you'll have forgotten about her in a matter of months. Her problems are far worse than yours now, don't worry about it.

time heals all wounds... this is no exception. Be tough, wait it out, grieve and then move on. A chick that you never banged told you that she was pregnant and that she was leaving you... this situation could have been a hell of a lot more complicated. Consider yourself lucky.

I'll try =/

I should have banged her and knocked everything of course...hmmmm just a thought

Thanks! :beer:

Also, you'll do fine. ZZZ is right - you'll just shrug her off in a couple of months.

I'm pretty sure that's what henry is referring to by being immature.

I suggest you stop sulking, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

You should have! Then we would have REALLY chased her with a rocket launcher.

God dammit man.

I'm not "sulking"...

Yeah, I can definitely understand that. Maybe she was just too overwhelmed with being pregnant to even deal with you, like in the scheme of things she might have a baby. I agree with Roygbiv, you should let her deal with all that first, and if you still angry, confront her.

In the mean time, go do something to get your mind completely off it that isn't drugs or massive violence.

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i got mine wheres yours

Fine, pout.

massive violence....

any loop holes in this rule?

... unless you're at a Slayer concert.

nope... im not pouting either.

"GOD HATES US ALL"


i love slayer....



i guess we can go to a Slayer concert

You are by coming here with your problems. The only way you can fix them is to talk, and by that I mean real life talk :p


Find a parent or responsible person, there's alot of weirdos on this forum. :shycouch:

weirdos are where i find my comfort ahahahahah

I think every person needs to go through some major heartache atleast once in their lives... the first time is always the worst, it gets easier the more it happens (as odd as that sounds). I guess our brains learn to deal with it the more it happens.

12 years ago I dated a girl, who claimed to be a virgin, for 7 months. Eventually I learned she was sleeping with some other guy... I never banged her. This really hurt me and it felt like the pain was never going to end... well, it did... and I eventually banged her just to say that I did, and then split (not saying this was a wise choice).

Yeah thats true.

:(

No need to get testy. I'm just pointing out that it's a good idea to try and make sure you understand what you're talking about before you climb up on the podium to lecture someone.

Hey, no worries, I'm a self-professed weirdo! (then again, that may make you want to be a weirdo even less ;))

Obviously im a weirdo because im coming to complete strangers...(after i wrote the internet safety thread in suggestion,announcements)(check it out tell me what i forgot btw) and askign for help...and you guys are helping alot!

Considering the majority of the people who've posted in here originally mistook his post for how I interpreted it, I'd suggest he works on his wording before I work on my comprehension.

Let's have a look at the post, shall we:
From this paragraph alone, it sounds like she got pregnant off cheating with cory.

Over 70 replies to this? Seriously? What is this, Dr.PhilBanter?

:p:what if it is

Then we need a new banner.

Most of them are me talking about chasing pregnant women with rocket launchers.






I'm still looking forward to that.... CORY

nothing wrong with throwing your issues out there to strangers to see what kind of feedback you get. Talking to people you know isn't always the best method, especially if you don't trust them 100%. I think it's good you asked your internet pals first... at the end of the day just make sure you are using your gut instincts with how to proceed.

also, Dr. Phil Banter would be terrible.

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