The Sexual Experience Thread

[CoolBec]

Originally Posted by Rezdaddy Longlegs

Why would you want to date someone who has some other dudes kid.......

1. You're attracted to them
2. You like them
3. You enjoy spending time with them
4. You like kids
5. You have a lot in common with them
6. All of the above

[Dayvan Cowboy]

why isn't there a male BC pill yet? I'm getting bloaty and fat and pimply (not to mention i have migraines so i have a high risk for getting a stroke) and nobody seems to care, but the moment somebody suggests researching a male contraceptive, everybody is suddenly worried about the effects it will have on libido or that such a thing wouldn't make money.

babies are not just a woman's responsibility goddammit!

[Burning Down]

Originally Posted by djchameleon

Why is that so important though? Most women that I talk to get so hung up over age and having to be in the same stage of life. I honestly couldn't care less about that. If I make a deep connection with someone and they are in a different stage of life then I just roll with it. Petty things like that don't matter if I really care about the person.

Because the younger person will always feel as though they are holding the other one back. I think that's the biggest issue, especially for people in their 20's, because that age is for people to explore the world or other places, get an education, get their foot in the door career-wise, etc etc etc. Once you're past 30, a lot of that doesn't happen anymore. People are mostly thinking about career advancement, settling down, possibly having children, all that. I think if I was 33 instead of 23, I wouldn't care as much about a larger age gap providing that the other person is not significantly younger or older than myself - and by that I mean like 10 years either way (for example).

[Arya Stark]

There are some Male BC choices that I've heard of but they were so cheap that they aren't really advertised because they aren't as profitable, I assume.

[Burning Down]

Originally Posted by Dayvan Cowboy

why isn't there a male BC pill yet? I'm getting bloaty and fat and pimply (not to mention i have migraines so i have a high risk for getting a stroke) and nobody seems to care, but the moment somebody suggests researching a male contraceptive, everybody is suddenly worried about the effects it will have on libido or that such a thing wouldn't make money.

babies are not just a woman's responsibility goddammit!

There are probably primitive prototypes of male BC pills out there, but for now have you looked into an IUD? Specifically a non-hormonal copper one like Paragard? Intrauterine Device (IUD) Birth Control and Side Effects

Provided that you don't have problems metabolizing copper (Wilson's Disease), it's very effective and does not alter hormone levels. The copper just changes the natural environment inside the uterus. I have the hormonal type (Mirena). You could also try a different kind of pill, maybe a low dose one.

[CoolBec]

Originally Posted by Burning Down

There are probably primitive prototypes of male BC pills out there, but for now have you looked into an IUD? Specifically a non-hormonal copper one like Paragard? Intrauterine Device (IUD) Birth Control and Side Effects

Provided that you don't have problems metabolizing copper (Wilson's Disease), it's very effective and does not alter hormone levels. The copper just changes the natural environment inside the uterus. I have the hormonal type (Mirena). You could also try a different kind of pill, maybe a low dose one.

I used the coil for a couple years with good results. But seems like it's not for everyone. I finally had my tubes plugged though.

[Black Francis]

i never even thought of a BC pill for men i never even knew it existed
i would rather use that than use condoms or get an operation cause what if i eventually want to have a kid with the girl?

[Burning Down]

Originally Posted by Black Francis

i never even thought of a BC pill for men i never even knew it existed
i would rather use that than use condoms or get an operation cause what if i eventually want to have a kid with the girl?

Well the pill for women is completely reversible so I imagine it would be the same for men. Otherwise it's just a vasectomy without the surgery lol

[butthead aka 216]

Originally Posted by Arya Stark

There are some Male BC choices that I've heard of but they were so cheap that they aren't really advertised because they aren't as profitable, I assume.

ive never heard of a reliable one similar to female bc pills


and i highly doubt it wouldnt sell at a similar price. there would be tons of guys tryna buy it

[Arya Stark]

It's more of a procedure than something you can buy but it's really inexpensive.